2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your tarehe nyumbani and they don’t let wewe get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight kiss isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips au a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that wewe can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a songesha if wewe feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight kiss scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies onyesha that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to songesha in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your tarehe steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first kiss with your date. This means no tongue au special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his au her world! wewe can place your hand on the small of their neck if wewe wish.
If your tarehe is enthusiastic, wewe may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, zaidi involved kiss. However, only do this if wewe feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of kissing too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting zaidi than to make them regret kissing wewe in the first place.
If wewe get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, au if wewe feel your tarehe getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your tarehe is waiting for a while to go inside, kiss her. She wants wewe to.
-If wewe feel your tarehe trying to songesha away au say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" au your tarehe has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your tarehe probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight kiss on someone.
-Add maoni such as "Tonight was amazing" au "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and onyesha her that wewe mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching wewe go.
-If wewe want to be extra cute wewe could even kiss her hand au forehead, but be wary of the forehead kiss as some girls find it patronizing au granddad-like.
Warning
-If your tarehe is facing the other way, do not grab his au her head and turn it to face wewe for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) kiss in front of friends, whether they’re yours au your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around kissing anyone, anytime! wewe may be charged with sexual assault if wewe songesha too aggressively.
