2.Break the kiss barrier (optional). If you're feeling brave, test the waters with a small kiss on the hand au the cheek. If the other person seems interested, it's probably salama to proceed with a kiss on the mouth.
If you're kissing a girl: Take her hand and slowly lift it to your mouth. Gently press your lips into the back of your hand for 2 au 3 sekunde before breaking away.
If you're kissing a guy: Lean in and plant a 2- au
3.-second kiss on his cheek. Keep your lips soft, and avoid puckering like wewe would if wewe were kissing a family member. If wewe want your intentions to be extra clear, aim for the part of his cheek just to the side of his lips.
3 Set the mood with a romantic compliment. Go big and pay the other person the sincerest compliment wewe can think of. If wewe get it right, the other person might take the lead and lean in to kiss you.
Say it in an intimate way. Lower the volume and tone of your voice slightly, and lock eyes. Not only does this communicate that wewe have deep feelings for this person, it entices him au her to come closer to hear you.
Focus on an alluring quality. Even if wewe truly think that your tarehe is an amazing mpira wa kikapu player, now might not be the best time to bring it up. Instead, base your compliment on how wewe see your tarehe as a romantic partner. Here are some possibilities wewe can try:
"You are SO beautiful."
"Your eyes drive me crazy."
"I upendo to see wewe smile."
"I can't even believe I'm lucky enough to be with wewe right now."
4.If all else fails, go for broke and state your intentions. If your tarehe hasn't picked up on any of your hints and you're dying to lock lips, wewe might as well be straightforward and just ask if wewe can kiss him au her. Don't worry, though — wewe can be direct while still being romantic and compelling. Try these phrases if you're at a loss for words:
"I'd upendo nothing zaidi than to kiss wewe right now."
"I'm sorry if this is too forward, but I'd really like to kiss you."
"I want to kiss wewe so much that it is just about killing me."
5.Go in for the kiss. Don't waste any time once wewe have the go-ahead — close your eyes, lean in and smooch! The inayofuata sections will discuss some kissing techniques, as well as how to handle kissing in different dating situations such as a first kiss au kissing after a date
