Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay au bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors au feelings they have make them gay au bi.
But really, asking other people to tell wewe whether au not wewe are gay au straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what wewe do every day. It's up to wewe to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves wewe feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered kwa you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who wewe are. Don't let anyone convince wewe that wewe should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on wewe and tell wewe who wewe are! Only wewe know how wewe feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, au anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay au straight. Many struggle with it for years au even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled au are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, kwa no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this makala has helped wewe discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who wewe are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, au anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell wewe whether au not wewe are gay au straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what wewe do every day. It's up to wewe to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves wewe feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered kwa you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who wewe are. Don't let anyone convince wewe that wewe should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on wewe and tell wewe who wewe are! Only wewe know how wewe feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, au anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay au straight. Many struggle with it for years au even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled au are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, kwa no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this makala has helped wewe discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who wewe are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, au anything else!
Reasons to Choose to Become Gay:
1.) To become rejected kwa society.
2.) To have multiple groups against myself.
3.) To raise risks of being physically harmed.
4.) To raise risks of being mentally harmed.
5.) To have less rights in the states.
6.) To risk loosing family support.
7.) To risk loosing friends.
8.) To risk loosing chances at good jobs.
9.) To get flamed for being a flamer.
10.) To be a large target for rude jokes.
11.) To be described as wanyama to others.
12.) To be talked about as things among the law.
13.) To raise my chance of being lead toward suicide.
14.) To lose my chance at a rightful marriage.
15.) To hide myself from everyone else.
WHO WOULDN'T WANT ALL THAT! (:
Who would CHOOSE this!?
Being GAY is NOT a CHOICE.
1.) To become rejected kwa society.
2.) To have multiple groups against myself.
3.) To raise risks of being physically harmed.
4.) To raise risks of being mentally harmed.
5.) To have less rights in the states.
6.) To risk loosing family support.
7.) To risk loosing friends.
8.) To risk loosing chances at good jobs.
9.) To get flamed for being a flamer.
10.) To be a large target for rude jokes.
11.) To be described as wanyama to others.
12.) To be talked about as things among the law.
13.) To raise my chance of being lead toward suicide.
14.) To lose my chance at a rightful marriage.
15.) To hide myself from everyone else.
WHO WOULDN'T WANT ALL THAT! (:
Who would CHOOSE this!?
Being GAY is NOT a CHOICE.
