upendo can be an amazing thing, but if its not true it can hurt, like, alot...loving someone isnt the same as being IN love, loving someone is like loving a brother sister mother father au friend but theres that one person that you'll find that you'll be IN upendo with. It's gonna be that one person that wewe look out of the classroom for, it's gonna be that person that when wewe get in eyecontact your moyo jumps, it's gonna be that person where youre totally sober but wewe feel tipsy maybe even drunk, that person is going to take your breathe away..and i know you've had one person in mind this whole time kusoma this....yeh, and that person is probably thinkning the same thing about you, secretly, not saying anything because they're afraid of your opion..so go..go talk to him/her, theyr probably waiting..