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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my upendo for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other siku i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother alisema " No zaidi mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Michael Jackson Majibu

lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with wewe there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps wewe going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for wewe in physical form. MJ's there for wewe in spiritual form. But your family will be kwa your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that wewe truly upendo him, but don't let that blind wewe from the people that will be there with wewe at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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lol thanks! ;)
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WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ mashabiki of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a shabiki of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a shabiki of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your upendo for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted shabiki and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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thanks that really touches my moyo
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zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I upendo my obsession:D
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UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my upendo for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that wewe couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy wewe one if I knew wewe :)
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awww i would buy u one too
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zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw au know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to upendo MJ...

But loving him zaidi than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

wewe did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe wewe should talk to a psychiatrist to see why wewe feel this way.
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is zaidi than one shrink out there. wewe just need to find the right one.
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AimieDawn said:
From knowing other mashabiki of Michael, I know they have connections to him kwa his muziki and his love. But wewe do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, wewe should never upendo anyone zaidi than your family. Especially someone wewe never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I upendo Michael, I truly do. wewe don't have to get every single thing related to him to onyesha how much wewe upendo him. It's about love, not obsession au material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to onyesha your love.

Please get help and try spending zaidi time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even zaidi sick to see how many mashabiki are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so wewe all approve of loving someone wewe never even knew zaidi than your family? Oh whatever.
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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And wewe think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but wewe really think he would've picked a bila mpangilio shabiki to be there for?
AimieDawn posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^ Bit harsh...
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