wewe should compare behavior in the person under suspicion to their "base" behavior, if possible. In other words, if they always have shifty eyes, then this trait can't be considered as an indication of lying. On the other hand, if they are normally very calm under pressure, but start shifting in their chair after certain questions, that may indicate lying. Because all techniques fail at times, wewe should use several indications before assuming the person has lied.
How To Tell If Someone Is Lying kwa Testing Responses
One way to test for lying, is to measure a persons desire to avoid a subject, which will sometimes indicate dishonesty au guilt. If wewe think the person is lying, change the subject quickly. A lying person will often go along easily, and may even visibly relax. An innocent person is zaidi likely to be slightly confused kwa the change and want to finish their thoughts.
Another lie detecting technique is to suggest something that would make a guilty person feel uncomfortable and watch for a response. Suppose your wife Jane says she was at her mother's house, and wewe think she is lying. Rather than saying, "I'm calling your mother to verify this," wewe could use a subtle approach. wewe might say, "That reminds me, I'm going to stop kwa your mother's house today to fix that door for her." <
If your wife was lying, the idea of wewe seeing her mother should make her nervous. She may give wewe reasons why wewe shouldn't go there. Of course, if your relationship has reached the point where wewe feel the necessity to resort to these techniques, a simple lie may not be the worst of your problems. Still, sometimes wewe need to know, so here are a few zaidi ways to tell if someone is lying.
They are using your words. Using your exact words to respond can be an indication of lying. wewe say, for example, "Did wewe leave this here?" and they respond, "No, I did not leave this here."
They use un-contracted words. A lack of contractions is zaidi common when lying. For example, instead of saying "I didn't sleep with her," a man might say," I did not have sexual relations with that woman." Again, compare to base behavior, though, as some people may not use contractions often anyhow.
Over-compensation. Often when people lie, they try too hard to be natural, and they give zaidi detail than is necessary.
Forced smiles. A real smile involves zaidi muscles, while a forced smile will use just the muscles around the mouth. The lie here may only be about their feelings, of course.
Let them talk. The zaidi a person talks, the zaidi likely wewe are to catch them in a lie (if they are being dishonest), especially when wewe learn the indications to watch for. These are just a few of the ways how to tell if someone is lying.
