I know someone who Lost their virginity at 12! Wierd huh?

It's disgusting.

Most of them are just careless, uneducated, rebellious, au blinded kwa their "puppy love" It's good that wewe have your head on straight. Maybe wewe can convince your Marafiki abstinence is the way to go until wewe are truly ready for sex.

Good job, I'm finally proud of a teenager on here.

But then again there are different reasons people lose their virginity at a young age. Because one, they want to fit in, au they don't want to feel like they're less experienced than others, this is zaidi the case with guys than with girls. Two, because they have a low self esteem and will believe what a guy says because they want to believe it, au even if they don't, they just want to feel wanted for even that one moment, this is zaidi the case with girls. Three, their parents don't talk to them about sex, so they don't know how to control themselves, don't know the facts about sex and the dangers. Four, they're horny and can't control themselves, and don't use their brain first. Five, they think they're in love, so they think its okay. Six, some of them truly think they are ready for it. Seven, some of them have grown up too fast so to speak, and have been exposed to things at too young an age, whether its from hanging out with the wrong people, parents being too lenient, au even sexual abuse. Eight, some are wild and crazy, think they're the ish, think they're grown, and think they know everything and are so smart and so mature. Also, some of them have that mentality that everyone is doing it, and nobody likes to get left out of anything. There is a possibility that they can be truly in upendo and are really ready to do it, but that's only the case in like 1 in every 25 million lol. Sorry my answer was so long... lol.

grossssss...

I think everyone should be free to do whatever they want, but to me personally it just seems sick to have sex when your body and mind are not developed and are still a little kid's. At 12 wewe should be just starting to date!, not getting naked and sweaty with other kids.

But whatever floats your boat, I guess :S

Dude! That’s wrong, each to their own and everything but at 12 I was still watching the Disney channel. A 12 mwaka old shouldn't even be thinking about it let alone having it!

i had a so called friend who Lost her virginity when she 12, and kwa age of 17 she felt like all of her boyfriends only used her for sex and it was really, really sad but i don't care she's hoe

Quite sad. Innocence is disappearing for children.

Eh.. I mean I think it's a bit young but I know several people who are 14 and aren't virgins anymore..

I am 15 years old and I had sex last year. 12 is a little young for me.....your kinda still developing! THATS NARSTY

Believe this au not, I know some girls who Lost their virginity at age 10 :(
Even. Weirder. But, yeah...

If she feels bad, then wewe should support her. I had a friend who Lost it at 12 as well, and she is becoming a whore and isn't ashamed to have sex with nameless men. Be glad she isn't like that and help her.

well im 12 now and i could see having sex within the inayofuata few months (but kwa then i would be 13) but thats only because i am very i mean very mature for my age (phisically and mentally)

I'm 13 and I'm no longer virgin just Lost it this summer

Im 14 & I Lost My Virginity Three Months Ago

i know a 12 WHO IS PREGNANT kwa A 18 mwaka OLD!

All these majibu are making me sick! I'm a mother and my only daughter is 12, she'll be 13 in a few months. I Lost my virginitry at 17 and even at the time I thought it was too soon, but fortunately in my case it was the right guy! Same man I'm with now 14 years later. I think kids these days need to think with their heads first not their asses!

omg that is sick and wrong. i know a girl that did when she was 13. its so wrong

all i wanna say is that i dont find it wierd that 10-12 mwaka old kids are having sex .i mean seriously upendo and sex dont have an exact age anymore but anyways i do find it sad that kids at a such young age are alredy havin sex the kids should wait till they are older at least 13 like me.......... lol

That's sad. Giving up they're virginity at 12. That's throwing their life away. They should have waited until they were atleast 18 au more.

So I am 12 almost13 and my boyfriend is 13 and we r thinking of haveing sex and his/my room au in the car. That is what she wonted to do and we might just do it to day.

i know a girl that was 11 and had a baby..:P

well not really i Lost mine at 8 kwa a rapeist some times they dont want to tell things like that 4 the longest time i acted like a slut to hide it then i broke down so dont judge

My ex Lost his virginity at 11 lol

People who do this don't know what there doing nowadays, how sad for those losers.XD
Lawl.

Not completely, I've known a couple people who did it at 13. My boyfriend actually Lost his virginity at 14, but then again he was drunk (NOT generalizing!).

Losing your virginity at 15-16 is quite common I know, but 12, that's scary. This is one sexual topic where I'm very conservative. 12?! I was still playing with my Barbie dolls and watching Disney Channel at 12. I personally think it's better to wait till' you're a married adult to have sex and that 12 mwaka olds should be focused on family, friends, chatting, holidays, school, and fun-not drugs, sex, gangs, crime, diseases, babies, and welfare. Kids go through enough crap as it is.

I agree, it's weird. 12 mwaka olds should just stick to masturbating.

This is my opinion, 12 mwaka olds should not be thinking au having sex. I don't think they should be dating either. Having crushes yes, but not boyfriends. I started dating at 13 which is only a mwaka older but being a teenager is different. 12 years old, wewe should be hanging out with friends. No 12 mwaka old is mature enough to even be in a serious relationship, let alone make the decision to have sex. This is just crazy to me..

That's ridiculous,but most pre-teens these days start early.

So i Lost my virginity at twelve im older now and realize it was a mistake but i started my period in like fifth grade already had boobs and hips and curves i look 20 but right now im 15 i was in upendo but it was a mistake i new i could have gotten pregnat but im bipolar and carless at times, all in all i recomend tht everyone should wait untill they really knows its what they want i mean u only have one virginity to loose so might as wel give it to someone u upendo when ur the right age

I know a guy who Lost it wen he was 10. He did it with his Marafiki 9 yr old sister in her room, at his Marafiki party.
I know another guy who did it wen he was 10 also.
Oh, an I also know ANOTHER guy who was 8, I think, wen he Lost his virginity in Alabama.

I know alot of guys who aren't virgins anymore...

No it is not "WEIRD" - it is just Too Young.

thats a sad and scary thing happening in america i just can't belive how stupid kids are now and i'm only twellve going on thirteen in 7th grade and i get how stupid it all is

I know a 13 mwaka old girl who Lost her viriginity to a 23 mwaka old guy....