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Is having sex with another guy while having a boyfriend considered as cheating?

 Beautiful_Liar posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Cinders said:
Different relationships have different definitions of cheating, but, as a general rule, undeniably yes, sex outside of your relationship is, nine times out of ten, considered cheating, and the only time it is not considered cheating is if BOTH partners agree to an open relationship.

I do not know if this swali is referring specifically to wewe and your relationships, but if it is, I'm assuming that wewe and your boyfriend are in the typical monogamous relationship, rather than the atypical polygamous relationship. In that case, straying outside that monogamous commitment is definitely cheating, and can hurt the other person. Whether it's a guy sleeping with another girl, a girl sleeping with another guy, a guy sleeping with another guy au a girl sleeping with another girl, sex outside of the relationship is what modern society colloquially calls "cheating." Other names for it include infidelity, straying, adultery, betrayal, and having an affair (though admittedly, the latter one assumes a sekunde relationship which implies having sex out of the relationship at least zaidi than once).

I hope that cleared up any confusion on the subject. Nine times out of ten, there is no wiggle room. It's infidelity. The tenth time out of ten occurs in polygamous au open relationships.
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never knew there was so many different terms for cheating ;)
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sesshyswind said:
MOG! I never heard of a person who wouldn't freak out and throw a violent fit just from hearing someone ask a swali like this. So yes I believe it is.
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Monrose said:
It is, but I'm okay with it.
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Read my answer
Abilei posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
boolander25 said:
Yeah, I'm pretty sure that when wewe have a bf, wewe shouldn't sleep, make out au onyesha any sign of physical affection with anyone but your boyfriend.
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dustfinger said:
Unless wewe guys are swingers than yes
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K5-HOWL said:
*looks at Cinder's answer* There's your answer :3
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iam_emo said:
not really,if u only had sex with this dude and never saw him again,then no.it was just a 1night stand.
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I pretty much agree
Abilei posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
BlackAngel369 said:
the fact u have 2 ask is sad enough! u clearly dont care about ur bf enough 2 just keep urself 4 only him.
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hujambo wewe know nothing about her, wewe have no right to judge nor say what you've said. Just because someone happens to think different from wewe doesn't mean a thing. Grow the fuck up!
Abilei posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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then y rite below this u agree she is a whore? i can speak my mind, she asked 4 it. u r the whore! u will never understand how 2 upendo only one person, cuz ur 2 busy being selfish. u will never find upendo if ur sleeping 4 one male 2 the nxt. u missy need 2 grow the fuck up! & yes i dont knw her, but i do knw one ulgy side of her & tht is the side she was willing 2 onyesha 2 me.
BlackAngel369 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Wow, that sure was a mouth full of nonsense. I never agreed to her being a whore. He alisema "it's considered being a whore" I alisema rock on because of an inside joke. wewe know nothing of why I alisema that so your little maoni about that gas just been ruled out. Then there's all the slamming wewe just did on me, once again wewe don't know me. I don't sleep around, just so wewe know I'm a virgin. So once again, ruled out. Maybe I do need to grow up but wewe need to loosen up. A bf and a gf don't belong to each other, they aren't married. She showed no side of anything FYI. She was asking theoretically not litterally.
Abilei posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Learn to spell!
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Abilei said:
Well as wewe already know, I don't think it's cheating if the two people aren't married. I mean when it's just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship they don't own each other so I think it's perfectly fine.

wewe know that in my past I've been known to play a few guys, I see nothing wrong with that. I'm not married to them, I don't own them, they don't own me.
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I agree!
Monrose posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Thought wewe would
Abilei posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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wewe probably are the kind of person who does not believe in monogamous relationships. This is absolutely OK, so long as you're smart and safe, and that the guys wewe tarehe are aware of this. But so-called "exclusive dating" IS a social contract, regardless of marital status, and is assumed kwa the majority of society to be a monogamous relationship. If wewe are only in open relationships, au not seeing any one person at a time, then that's no problem. I just hope your boyfriends are aware of your beliefs and habbits. It's no fun when one person thinks the relationship is one thing, and the other thinks it's something else.
Cinders posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
irena83 said:
Yes,i consider it as cheating.
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chicky55 said:
noo shit sherlockk!! wewe think its opkkk to fuck some guy and leave wewe man hanging damn your a bitchh i would dumpp your asss!!!!!!!!!!!
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For one you're a bitch, kahaba and I don't know how wewe even have friends, maybe wewe shouldn't answer maswali like that cause it's liable to come and kick wewe in the punda and God willing I hope it does! Bitch!
Beautiful_Liar posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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jeez
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18marras said:
Yes, it is cheating. What if wewe become pregnat and then he finds out? Huh? He will probably break up with wewe if the info leaks. It is considered cheating in my book. Only have sex with one guy.
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