No. The belief in god and your own personal faith is just that...personal. What others make it does not mean it's written in stone and shouldn't destroy ones own faith kwa it. People that preach and judge others for whatever reason, does not mean they have all the majibu au that they are right in their prejudices.
There are gay friendly churches as well. People that DO NOT judge. They except people for who they are inside, not kwa what they do in their private lives and that is a true reflection of Christ.
Just for the record I'm agnostic, but I've known some really awesome Christians that were gay and hetero Christians that were not judgmental and excepted people for their differences and just treated them like human beings. So this is what I'm basing it on really. wewe can't go wrong with upendo and a little bit of empathy.
I meant separately. I've known gay people that were Christian and heteros that were not judgmental that were Christian. Sorry for the confusion. I'll rephrase it in my answer.
dear, first ask yourself, what is god? have anyone reached till the final, objective answer? and if we take god as a 'creator',every kind of people is his creation. whether it be gay, lesbian, transsexual....any kind. believing in the principle called god and your sexuality are the two different things. they are made to relate with each other strongly kwa conservatives and heteronormatives.