Can u help me with boy friend help every one can help me I need ur help fast.

Honey look dont listen too them if your ready and hes ready then go ahed just make sure wewe use protection but wewe might want too keep it personal between the two of yall hope that helps

Well personally I don't think wewe should. I mean, first of all you're underaged, and becasue you're 12, in my country (UK) you/him could get done for statutory rape, as a girl under 13 is not mature enough to consent to having sex. I mean, I don't know if it's the same in your country, but the fact that this is a legit law shows that people your age are generally to immature for something like this.
Also, lets assume that wewe go through with it anyway, wewe need to be prepared for the worst. I mean, wewe could get pregnant. As I always said, wewe shouldn't have sex unless you're prepared for any consequences.
Finally, wewe need to make sure that your boyfriend realy does upendo you. I mean wewe say you've been going out for five years, but considering wewe were only 7-8 at the begining of the relationship, wewe need to make sure that you're going out for the right reasons, rather than stay with him. wewe need to make sure wewe trust each other, because if he says something to one of his mates, everyone would find out, and that could spell disaster.
That's just my opinion. I don't know too much, but this is just my view from what you've told me :D x

Just from your spelling, I would say wewe aren't mature enough to do it yet, sorry. So... wait.

wow almost 5 years, most 13 mwaka olds go out only for a week, yall must really like each other and hope u stay together for a long time. but if u want to, go ahead but i say wait a little longer until u guys are 100% sure u are ready. i don't think u wanna do this too early though. in my opinion u should wait till ur older, don't u think ur too young though??

I don't even understand why wewe ask your self that question, even if wewe guys are in upendo like i don't know what, that doesn't change the fact wewe guys are 13, and that it's not an age to have sex... i'm sure that even if wewe use protection it will be something wewe will regret, wewe have to learn to go against your desires say no to your envys and wait for the right time.

it's for wewe good, and it wont kill wewe if wewe wait, it's going to help grow, and upendo each other, and if wewe see that when wewe guys go futher each time wewe play, then think about just stop that... and do other things, upendo is not only about sex, and if wewe do it to early, like know,... i'm not sure your couple will last,

just saying wewe are free to beleive me au not...

hope wewe will make the right decision, wewe are still young, tooooooooo young to think about those things...

take care

if ur ready and yall rlly luv each other then u should

dear i think u r not in a situation of having sex au something like that.....u should control ur anger and ignore that guy.don,t spoil ur life coz of brat (sorry) but thats true.......but if u want to talk message me

Don't have sex yet. Wait at least until you're legal.

Like others before me have said, prepare for the worst. Let's imagine that your condom breaks and wewe get pregnant. You're super young, so you're not legally allowed to have a job and neither is he. wewe have no way to support this unborn child, and none in sight for a good 2 au 3 years.

Since you're young, wewe probably haven't finished growing. Giving birth is incredibly painful and your hips might not be big enough to support childbirth. Your muscles (in your crotch area) might tear because the baby's head is so big. Imagine squeezing a large balungi through your vagina. Ouch?

And after all that, wewe never know if your boyfriend will stay with wewe and help care for this child. NOW he says he will, but that's before any of it happens. Grown men run away from their baby mammas, who's to say he won't? wewe may tell yourself that he's different and that he WOULD stay, but wewe never really know.

And that's without even mentioning STIs!

I'm such a downer...but all that to say that wewe should WAIT until wewe are fully aware of what might happen. And you're legal. :)

Maybe wewe guys should wait until wewe know how to type in a way that is easy for elder folk to understand.

i dont think your mature enough but wewe seem so sure that wewe are?:L but think about it.. its not just feeling ready its also common sense? like putting on a condom right if wewe cant do that it can mgawanyiko, baidisha and wewe can get pregnant... and two 13yr olds cant look after a baby??? wait till your 14 au 15, cus theres zaidi types of contrectpetion then condom when wewe yurn 14 wewe can go on the pill? but do as your please.. take my advice au dont cus at the end of the siku you've only got yourselves to blame if anything goes wrong no one else... but i advice wewe do not have sex yet and wait till your older cus things can go wrong!!!

My personal opinion: wewe guys are way to young to be having sex.

If you're going to do it anyway: Make sure wewe use protection and just really try to think about the consequences. This may make wewe zaidi attached to him, but him less to you. wewe may regret it when you're older and meet someone else wewe want to share the experience with. Etc.
I hope wewe make the decision that's best for wewe though!

Your way to young to be having sex and both of wewe don't know anything about taking care of a child.