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do wewe think i made the right choice? (PLEASE HELP!)

I had sex a few times now but im only 15.me and my boyfriend do use protection, but i feel unsure i think sex is fun and cheers me up. i do want to have sex zaidi but i need others opinions.
 cuteinblack6 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Jillywinkles said:
Personally I feel 15 is a little young, but each person is different, and if wewe are comfortable with it then zaidi power to you. And wewe don't really need others' opinions. Sex is your decision, and it's your life. Don't let others influence you, just be mature about it and use your own judgement.

Keep using protection and you'll be fine.
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I think this is very good advice. I just want to add a question-- Are wewe asking for other people's opinion because wewe don't know if you're ready, to validate a choice you've already made, au for some other reason? It's always great to ask yourself WHY wewe ask maswali (particularly about choices that have already been made) just as much asking the question. But as far as I'm concerned, if you're safe, have regular checkups, and take care of yourself, then you'll be OK. I recommend visiting a gynocologist. au go to the clinic at your high school-- this is a confidential matter and your parents won't find out, if you're worried about that.
Cinders posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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salama sex a the time is good
JailynnLuv posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
nafela said:
in this situation it dosnt matter about peoples opinions. it only matters if wewe think your ready for it and if wewe are then go for it. just make sure your doing it the right way and make sure your doing it with someone wewe upendo and trust. make sure that this person isnt pressuring wewe to do enything wewe dont want to do. dont do it just because wewe think your making this person happy do it because its what wewe want.
i hope my advice will help tc
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loves-oth said:
Like the maoni above, i think wewe are in an okay situation.
i was 15 when i Lost my virginity, and i was in a relationship.
if wewe are unsure, speak to your boyfriend about it.
why do wewe feel unsure? that's the main question. sex is perfectly natural, and as long as wewe are using contraception and are sure wewe are ready, there is no need to feel wewe are doing wrong.

wewe should maybe speak to your doctor au gp about going on the contraceptive pill? it may give wewe zaidi reassurance, if that is what wewe are looking for.
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kuhleau said:
15 is young but kwa no means very young. If wewe are enjoying it and have a genuine relationship with your partner then keep going at your pace.

The pill is convenient but has a lot of flaws. It does not protect 100%. It does not protect from STDs.

Go on the pill kwa all means but stay with the condoms until your boyfriend at the time is a mature adult and not a pin head pumped dick sex addict like all guys under 25.

Be careful over the inayofuata 10 years, but enjoy yourself aswell
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johnhetfield666 said:
i am 16 but still a virgin so idk
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iluvtigers said:
well if wewe are unsure if wewe want sex, then dont do it for a little while and see how wewe feel. also see how your boyfriend reacts. if hes fine with not having sex then stay with him and have sex again when youre ready. if he keeps pressuring wewe to have sex, then he doesnt appreciate wewe for who wewe are, he just wants to score.
remember this wont be the ONLY decent guy, so take your personal matters no matter how slow wewe want. along the road wewe will meet a few nice guys who will respect your decisions.
just remember its YOUR body and YOUR life and that it will hurt wewe if wewe get pregnant zaidi than him.
one step at a time :) good luck
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cA_iNen11 said:
15 is to0 y0ung 4 sex,.bUt we aRe n0w in the mOderN worLd where sex is verY normaL fOr uS,.bUt it dePends oN y0u if y0u reaLLy wanted t0o,.jUst be cArefuL cOz i s0me oF mY friEnds g0t pRegnAnt aT 16 aNd n0w thEy hAve goT bAbiEs tO tAkecare,.g0odLuck!!
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Orange_Crush said:
I had sex for the first time when I was 13 so if your comfortable with it it's fine I mean mine was with a girl....., but I find girls to be zaidi understanding then guys, but thats just me
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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omg 13 is young!!!
stephmfan215 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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im 13 and am still afraid to have a bf, but im a nervous wreck so thats just me
wolfgirl1217 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
shomill said:
I think you're a little young, and if you're doing it for "fun" and not for love, then you're doing it for the wrong reason.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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If wewe just want fun, try masturbating.
shomill posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
BlackAngel369 said:
if ur questioning if u should au not is a sign to me that u should stop! Sex needs to b 100% ok with wewe and if ur bf don't lik tht, then u have learned somthing bout who he is. im 17 and i had just resistly asked myself the same swali (and i don't have a bf to upendo when i do it) so its up to u, just remeber ur body ur rules.
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stephmfan215 said:
i think that its okay wat ur doing. im 15 and ive had it... just lik once for real and then another kinda half way. if u think that this is ok and ur boyfriend thinks it is 2 and ur being salama then its fine.

and it is funnn!! ;)
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ShadowFangrl said:
:) Do what wewe feel is right. BUT, think, H.E.L.P.

How would this affect your life?
Exciting? If you're happy, the go for it.
Like it au not, listen to other peoples opinions.
Parents, would they agree to what wewe are doing?

I have a sex problem myself ^^'

I petend to have sex with a picture of Shadow the Hedgehog in bed, but that's my problem.
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