How do wewe feel about underaged sex?

Well, someone having sex at the age of 12 is not good and maybe not even wen ur 13, but it's better to have it when ur older and ready for the consequence that you'll have like getting pregnant. teenagers getting pregnant, that's their choice to get pregnant and it could be a mistake too, but at least ur older than 12. and good swali Becky.

I think it's perfectly fine as long as; wewe know what your doing, upendo eachother, use a condom au some form of contraception and fully understand all the consequences of having sex. If your doing all of that, have sex, have lots and lots of sex! XD

Personally, I don't think it's right. Simply because looking back to when I was 13, 14, I knew there would be no way I would have been ready and neither would any of my friends. Many of my Marafiki who Lost their virginity underage have regretted it. But, wewe know, it's up to the individual.

i will admit i had sex be for and i cried like a baby after. i thought i was ready but it turned out that i wasn't. i think ppl should wait till they get married. i sure do wish i waited to give that 1 thing to my hubby that i will get later in life. my bf i have is a v. and he wants me to take that from him but not now he said. he wants to w8 till we r married but i think im still 2 young to think of marrying and stuff. so yeah i think every 1 should w8 till they r married.

well i'm gonna be honest. i had sex when i was 14 and i thought it was fine. we were dateing for 8 mounths so i thought maybe it was the right time. today i still think i made the right choise. me and the guy broke up a mwaka later and we dated other people.

I am 14 years old, adn I think that underaged sex is not right. wewe should wait till wewe are married and can give that special thing to your husband. If wewe have sex as a teenager, be ready to face the consequences of maybe becoming a teenage mom. wewe DON'T want to live with regret.....I was raped earlier this year, thankfully, this guy came around the corner and punched him, then when the guy ran off,he helped me up and called the police giving them a full description of the guy. It was a horrible experience and I really don't want to live through it again....Not until I am old enough and married..so I can give myself to my hubby..

I have to say i disagree with it! I Lost my virginity at a very young age... be with someone for a long time then maybe think about it. i think your friend is gonna come out messed up once they break up.... i know i was hurt to death. So plz dont have sex until wewe know your ready... trust me... youll know

What do I think about underage sex? Its soo wrong! These poor girls are giving themselves up soo early on in life when they have soo many zaidi years to grow and to find a loving boy who is actually amazing and worthy of their upendo and affection. I just wish they'd wait a while before jumping right into it with someone they THINK is their upendo but is really just a horny litlle shit! As for teen pregnancies, well i'm a teen mum myself. I Lost my virginity to my boyfriend at 17 (HEY 17 is perfectly normal age lol & yes we did use a condom but they're not always 100% full proof) and couldn't be zaidi happier to lose it to him, he really is that great :) Anyway, back on topic .. With teenage pregnancies, I think that people should stop criticizing them because they need our help and support, now zaidi than ever! This isn't just about the parents anymore, its about the unborn child. We need to encourage and and motivate these teen parents to be the best that they can be so that they can provide a loving and stable nyumbani for their baby!

BTW sorry if i offend anyone :)

depends how underage wewe are
i was 14 and i DONT TAKE IT BACK!! i think if wewe feel ready.. like really ready,, and wewe understant the process and everything even the problems after it then have fun... but dont do it out of spit. upendo THEM!!!

Well, I have all kinds of feelings about that type of sex...

I, at first, think it's a huge risk. Because wewe never know where having sex at such a young age will take wewe (pregnancy? STD's? abusive relationships? etc.).

But then, I think it's not as bad as some may make it seem like. Sex is special, and most of the time, when it occurs, it's special. So whether you're underaged au not, it's still a fantastic experience.

But then I go down to the conclusion of seeing underaged sex as very wrong under a few circumstances; If the person is very young (Like twelve au thirteen-years-old), then I don't approve. Fourteen and fifteen, still wary about it. But sixteen and eighteen, I think it's perfectly fine as long as both partners play it safe.

Yeah, I have all kinds of thoughts about this (not as dirty as I just stated that sentence as!!!!)

Having sex at a young age can lead to a lot of things that aren't meant for young teens. Like depression and pregnancy. I am 16 years old and I haven't had sex, not because I don't want to, just because of the fact that I am waiting to find the guy that is right for me. When wewe are young and fall in upendo with someone, wewe don't think anything can take that upendo away, and wewe have sex with them... But what happens when wewe get pregnant and he leaves you? Then wewe are left at a young age with a baby who doesn't have a father. There are a lot of things that a teenager should think about before going out and having sex with someone. Honestly, I don't have anything against young people having sex if they are ready. I just feel bad for those who have sex with a bunch of people because they don't feel complete. If wewe are ready, no one is stopping you, wewe just have to look at all of the different outcomes before wewe make a choice.

Pardon if this upsets au offends anyone, i can see that there is a lot of Pro-Go about under age sex going on here, so I just though I needed to add this... This is a Quote from an answer I made to a very similar swali about a mwezi ago.

"15 is Waaaaaay to young to lose your virgintiy! It is a precious thing. Don't give it away to the cute boy who tickles your fancy, au make wewe feel alright, for most likely he wont end up being the man wewe marry. and after that (if wewe do) wewe are allready used up. Don't be a slut! Modern culture encourages this too much, resist it with all your will, grace and dignity, and anyone who says different, well look at them, carefully. It is not an uncool thing to resist a boy! It just means that wewe are stronger than that, and know what is best for you! Its like saying no to drugs, it can make wewe feel good, but it rots a hole in your brain and other problems, sex is the same way, wewe can even become Pregnant! And at 15, 16 au even 17 au 18, is too young, live your life salama and resist."

I know this rant may sound a little harsh, but its true. I know I Lost my virginity at 17, and of course I got pregant and had a kid, my daughter will be 13 in a mwezi from now (years old not months, I'm 31), though I marvel over it with each passing siku that it worked out okay for me. I truely feel that I an one of the lucky ones, because he could have turned out to either be the wrong boy for me, (when he seemed so right at the time), au ened up being a total Dick, leaving me with a kid to take care of on my own, which would SUCK!!!! Even now.

My advice to anyone is Wait! It'll be better for wewe in the long run. No need to rush into anything, wewe could get luckly, au wewe may not be, and you'll never turly know for sure if the decision wewe make was a good one, the right one au that wewe just plain went and TOTALY FUCKED UP!!! Your choice, but, please, do think about it, and make the right decision.

I don't believe in it, and I certainly don't condone it, but if I had had the chance to do it, I probably would have, so I don't really want to put anyone down for it, either.

Im 17 and i Lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend; which at the time we had did it, we were only going out for a month. I felt ready but aft i was mad with myself for giving something so valable so soon. But still aft doing it i didnt feel any diff from when i still had my virginit so i soon moved on. I had sex with my boyfriend that i knew i didn't upendo and thats what destroyed the relationship- o and the fact that i mite have been pregnant, but wasn't. Sex should be for marriage only, it messes things up in wewe and in the relationship if ur not. So KIDS of 14 and up should not play around with sex. But if u do, stop b4 u Lost something, like yourself!

i think having sex at 12 is total bullshit. that's wrong. i think that having sex 2 young is just not right. 15 is the youngest i wud say, but u really need to be mature. i think that there shouldnt be an pregnant teens, since they should be salama anyway. i think that a pregnant teen is just a symbol of stupidity and irresponsiblness