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Hi, this is gonna sound totally weird but it's something I have to tell. Alright, when I was in the 7th grade, my friend told me that she knew someone who was pregnant.

At first I didn't believe her, but then I realized it was true! And then a mwaka later I find out from my other friend that a friend of her friend just had a baby girl. OK, I find this very disturbing because I knew girls my age were doing things like making out and stuff, but I never really figured that girls my age would get pregnant at 13? What do wewe think?
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that goes to onyesha u always have salama SEX
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yes i agree
cherry7878 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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salama se
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CuddyHuddy said:
wewe would be surprised how many very young girls get pregnant every day. I knew of at least two when I was in 7th/8th grade. My mom works for a local doctors office and though it's not a regular occurrence, there was a twelve mwaka old who came for prenatal care there. It happens!
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shomill said:
Yeah, once wewe have had your first period, wewe can get pregnant.
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And in case anyone's wondering, no, I don't know that from personal experience. I learned a little thing called sex education.
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IHateWhores said:
There's a lesson to be learned here.
Use a condom.
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Is it bad that I lol'd? D: The ikoni also had something to do with the lolage. *is a bad person*
venvargie posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Is it bad that wewe told? Is that what wewe asked? No. wewe did not give names au give away anything & if wewe needed to talk about this and how this made wewe feel - as long as there are no names au anything, it is not bad in my opinion.
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Frances_17 said:
Yeah they so i know 2 girls right now that are pregnant. One is 17 the other just turned 15.... Crazy... Yeah and my bf she is 17 and she had her baby boy 2 weeks ago.....
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Oh, I see. And can wewe please tell your friend that I alisema congratulations!?
sapherequeen posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Giving birth at 17 isn't something I'd congratulate.
DoctorSpud posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I agree sapherequeen. Even though it might not be something wewe are happy about at first, a baby born is something to be glad about, even at seventeen.
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taylorRFan said:
Ya, I know a few Marafiki who just had babys, except they are 16 au 17...... And my ex just got a different girl pregnant, I put spagettie in his face, because he seemed nice at the time but I guess he is like all the other guys.
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p.s. she was 14!!!!!!
taylorRFan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Well, No F-ing wonder why your pissed off at him...
universal_rebel posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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And it takes two to tango!
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Mrs-Grint said:
That's happend to me. When I was in mwaka 7 (I would have been 11) I had a little group of Marafiki and one of them, Kaycee, was looking sad one day. We asked what was wrong and she didn't tell us. We pushed it and she eventually told us that her uncle had been raping her and she was pregnant.

We were all shocked. It took a while to sink in. Kaycee was being taken to the inclusion centre alot to talk with the school counciler. After a while I began to suspect her. She didn't have a baby bump at all. But I thought "Late I suppose."

But five months later, she still didn't have a bump and I didn't believe her. All of my other friend's believed me too. Kaycee was branded as a liar and she started going round with another group of girls. One time they cornered me in the playground and alisema I was mean and stupid and they beat me.

It's been two years since that happend and I'm thirteen now. We've never mentioned it. Kaycee still lies. I've tried to talk the truth out of her. But I just get shushed. After all that. I don't know what to believe.
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Kaycee sounds like a really stupid girl
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nan0 said:
girl don't think action and the price !!
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POYNETTEHATERZ said:
it's their choice to have sex and if they get prgos then its their fualt and wewe shouldn't think twice about it. the get progs then they can deal with ppl talkin about them
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iluvtigers said:
girls are now getting their period as early as 4th grade. yes it can happen, even though teen girls are still not fully developed au ready to have children.
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XbloodyXroseX said:
This unfortunately doesn’t surprise me a girl can get pregnant even if she hasn't had her period yet.
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No. U hav to hav ur period... U don't hav to be ON it but u hav to hav had it before...
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smGIRL101 said:
This girl at my school is13 and is also pregnant.She tries to hide it but wewe can totally see her stomach.Some say that her beau/baby daddy is the in 8th grade who also go to my school. I only seen him once.Even a couple of guys from my 5th period class asked him was he the baby's daddy. How stupid can wewe be to get pregnant at 13?
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LoopyLuna96 said:
There's a girl in my year, who's 13 au 14, and she's pregnant. Kind of weird, isn't it? And her boyfriend was 15 and he has anger problems. What a lucky kid.
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ilydimka said:
ok, well, wat would u do if ur best friend alisema she was pregnant and she got raped and stuff and she has had sex with all these guys and she is only 13????????
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PonygirlCurtis7 said:
There was this one girl on the teenage pregnancy spot who alisema the first time she was pregnant was wen she was 13. Then she got prego a sekunde time at 15. An I'm just thinking "u just threw ur life away!" cuz she did. Then I told her, nicely, that she needs to lay off the sex. I think she is bout 16 au 17 now...
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wewe don't need to be on your period to get pregnant. Haven't wewe heard of the youngest mother in history she wa 5 years old. I doubt she had her period before.
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I know a six mwaka old that started her period, and wewe do need to start your period to get pregnant , period=eggs....eggs=babies...
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crimson_lipsz said:
Seriously its a new generation, most 13 mwaka olds are having sex and its scary to think that my grand children will prob be like 9 years old and having sex...most of these girls don't think about pregnancy and aren't emotionally ready to have sex ...
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
I am not shocked no.

Growing up and Consequences - part of it~ wewe will find MANY zaidi things, maybe equally au zaidi shocking, sad, au disturbing.

There was someone in my school too at that age and they had to drop out. That is hard & tough. Their youth & growing up experiences are suddenly cut short and they now have a big responsibilty and have to grow up fast. Usually it falls on the grandparents and the girl is usually left without muchif any support from the father - not to mention the innocent Baby. It isn't very fair no - just for a moment of indiscretion! It is life altering and so much zaidi to think about. It in no way is shocking because there are early-bloomers and later bloomers when hormones kick in. I also did not ever think I woud be the FIRST out of my girlfriends to be deflowered! It happens.

..sometimes -sadly, without the girls consent. :(
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 I am not shocked no. Growing up and Consequences - part of it~ wewe will find MANY zaidi things, maybe equally au zaidi shocking, sad, au disturbing. There was someone in my school too at that age and they had to drop out. That is hard & tough. Their youth & growing up experiences are suddenly cut short and they now have a big responsibilty and have to grow up fast. Usually it falls on the grandparents and the girl is usually left without muchif any support from the father - not to mention the innocent Baby. It isn't very fair no - just for a moment of indiscretion! It is life altering and so much zaidi to think about. It in no way is shocking because there are early-bloomers and later bloomers when hormones kick in. I also did not ever think I woud be the FIRST out of my girlfriends to be deflowered! It happens. ..sometimes -sadly, without the girls consent. :(
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I DO want a baby/babies, and I am at that age in my life of family- but I ALSO believe in marriage first and I do not believe in entrapment either au not using condoms for safer sex. I believe in birth control too & planning, but stuff happens~ I know.
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darkwave said:
Those 13 mwaka old girls who get pregnant has a huge lack of slap in the face in my opinion.
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i agree!!
ilovecornholio posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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and what about the guy that gets them pregnant? I think the girl IS the one who will suffer with the weight of responsibilty -even moreso than the guy, so maybe the guy needs TOO?
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