love. what does it truley mean? being in upendo is simpe, anyone can convence themslves they are in love. being in upendo is when wewe feel something for one person zaidi strongly than wewe feel for another. but upendo is something elsa all together. upendo is when wewe cant convience yourselve wewe upendo someone, but when wewe try to leave something tells wewe no, stop and think. and when wewe do think the reason is blantint. upendo is when wewe think your done, done fighting and done lieing, but than it hits wewe that without all of that wewe wouldnt be the person wewe are, and they wouldnt be the one wewe love. even if it hurts and wewe dont think wewe can songesha on one zaidi siku with them, wewe find yourself woundering what wewe would do with out them, wewe try to image what it would be like. wewe know your in upendo when wewe see nothing, because without them wewe are nothing. they are the one other person in the world who knows how to upendo and how to hate just the way wewe do. they are the person that if wewe were in a crowd of people wewe woul be able to find them, becasue wewe just have that stroge of a connection. upendo is when wewe can hate them and still find yourself woundering about them, caring about them, and wanting them back. upendo is when the one wewe upendo has the power to make wewe stop dead in a rage of anger and make wewe think rushanal thoughts. so in the end anyone can BE in love, but in the long run upendo is something all together. wewe dont choose it, it chooses you. it takes hold of wewe and doesnt let go. it helps your moyo for a while, until it learns how to upendo on its own.