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What are the qualities u hate about guys?

Cheaters,liars,backstabbers,flatters,over possesiveness and over protectiveness,unhonest,heartbreakers,over romantic,and mostly the two mist things I hate in a guy is .......well I don't like if he is a pervert,racist,or if he makes remarks about girls which are au may be abusive
I like guys who respects a girls privacy,secrets and also about her likes and dislikes and always try to keep he happy
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Makeupdiva said:
Pretty much everything wewe listed. I don't like guys who act all sweet when they are with a girl they like au are dating than when they are in the public with their buddies they end up uigizaji like total douchbags. I also hate when they keep repeating how beautiful I look, I mean, it's nice but all the time, it gets zaidi and zaidi hard to believe that it's true. I also don't like it when a guy can't commit to a relationship. I haven't been in many but I would want a man who can commit and isn't afraid to be in a serious relationship.
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BlindBandit92 said:
wewe know if I ilitumwa a swali for the reverse. I wonder how much hate I'd get. And this is kinda why I don't come on as much anymore. So much bashing.. To Original poster: I understand wewe may have not intended that outcome but jeez. This is exactly why sometimes I don't like the fact fanpop is mostly girls.
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Blind, wewe know I upendo wewe and respect wewe as a user, but some of your maoni on this post are making me sad. Your defensiveness in this post is unsettling and reminds me a lot of when recently that "yesallwomen" hashtag trended on twitter following the UCSB shooting and men felt it was a perfect time to trend the hashtag "notallmen". Generalizations are not cool, I agree with that. I've met plenty of fuckwads in both genders. However, that doesn't make it okay to take it out on women who distrust men. I admit that I personally distrust men. That doesn't mean I hate men in the slightest, it means I'm wary of them. Why? Because it's men, not women, who will be the ones to rape me au murder me. That's off-topic a bit, but it relates to the fact that misogyny is deep-seated in our society and it's unavoidable. For you, a (probably) white male, wewe are privileged. wewe don't have to worry about walking down the mitaani, mtaa and getting raped. wewe don't have to worry about being paid less just because wewe have a vagina. wewe don't have to deal with what women deal with on a DAILY BASIS. Like I said, I do upendo you. I'm not trying to start an argument, just a friendly debate. But when wewe are in a position of privilege and have never experienced being oppressed, it's really shit to get offended at the oppressed who have a problem with their oppressors. Instead of getting offended, maybe wewe could have some empathy and recognize where the women are coming from? And have enough faith in yourself to admit that a majority of men are misogynistic and it's not okay? But that wewe personally are not misogynistic and once a woman gets to know wewe she'll see this is the case. i'm white and I can fully admit that white people are racist shitheads and don't blame minorities for not trusting white people, even though I'm white myself. It's about being able to step back and not be selfish and not make OTHER PEOPLE'S struggles about YOURSELF.
sarabeara posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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(Please not that the nyara are not meant to be me yelling lol. I couldn't do italics so I had to do nyara instead. It makes me sound angry when i'm really not)
sarabeara posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I don't get why the UCSB shooting brought up all this gender related nonsense. It's not how the crazed maniac was misogynistic au some shit, he hated everyone from both genders and obviously was sick in the head. The news should bring about discussions of mental illness and stricter gun controls, and also on the condolences of the victims of the murder.
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Book-Freak said:
I don't like how there is an expectation for guys to be 'strong' - e.g. onyesha nothing that could be considered a 'weakness'. It's society's fault though, not the fault of guys.
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I hate that, too. Guys should be strong and not onyesha feelings, right? I call BS on that one. So, yeah, I definitely agree with wewe :)
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Cyanide7 said:
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Lol xD
Ichigo127 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
sarabeara said:
How misogynistic so many of them are.
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AnimeFan66 said:
I totally agree with everything wewe listed, but if there's really one thing I don't like about guys is the way they think of girls as far as sexuality concerns. And the fact they get "turned on" kwa the sights of nudity au the size of a girl's bust. I mean, what kind of thing is that? :/ I may be a guy but it's not like I ever think of girls that way- not ever, ever. And I don't mean to offend others out there. It's your business, but I'm just forming an opinion here.
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i'm completely with u!
Ichigo127 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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i'm completely with u in that opinion!
Ichigo127 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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wewe are a very respecting guy :)
16falloutboy posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Seastar4374 said:
I hate how guys only go for looks half the time. Then they give girls like me standards that we have to be skinny, au wear make up. I hate when they just call girls like me "too ugly" au "too fat" and even "she isn't what I'm looking for." It's like what the hell?! wewe never even gave me a chance and yet wewe judge me. I also hate what wewe listed.
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I hate how guys only go for looks half the time. Then they give girls like me standards that we have to be skinny, au wear make up. I hate when they just call girls like me "too ugly" au "too fat" and even "she isn't what I'm looking for." It's like what the hell?! wewe never even gave me a chance and yet wewe judge me. I also hate what wewe listed.
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superDivya said:
The quality a hate about most guys is they have one keen habit:
Breathing.
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sieluvzsoul said:
I dunno wewe got 18 hours



Jk!



I hate how they're not there when they're needed the most. Like seriously one of exes saw with his own eyes and heard with his own ears someone say I was ugly, and fake and that I stuff my bra, and then when we were walking nyumbani he didn't even ask if I was ok he just talked about sports and shit which I like but still....I coulda used a nice talk about the insults



And I also hate everything everyone has listed above
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Omg all men are bad because ex didn't comfort me when I needed him. You're kidding right?
x-Yumi-x3 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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jeez no need to be a jerk about it
sieluvzsoul posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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and besides I didn't say all men. jeez fuck off
sieluvzsoul posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Nerdbuster2 said:
I guess I would say, when he is dishonest... he shouldn't pretend to upendo a girl when he doesn't... and sometimes it is so hard to tell... if someone pleases you, makes wewe feel good but doesn't mean it, then when wewe find out, it is zaidi heartbreaking than if he had told wewe straight away that he didn't like you. The thought of someone lying to me au cheating on me is the worst thing I can imagine... :'((
I hope that guy doesn't do that to me ever... <3
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Why not ask?
x-Yumi-x3 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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u mean ask him if he's cheating on me?
Nerdbuster2 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
springely said:
>Implying
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
vegeta007 said:
Okay so what you're implying is that only guys lie, cheat in relationship, backstab, are unhonest, over romantic, perverted and racists ? Because everyone lies, girls and guys both lie so it's not really just a guy thing. Girls have been known to be unfaithful too. Someone alisema they hate how guys mostly care about looks and they want girls to be skinny, how many of those celebrity "beauties" do wewe see with fat guys ? au "ugly" guys that teenage girls don't fantasize about ? I mean generally it's zaidi guys than girls with these types of things but it's not really exclusive to guys.
Yes guys do have things that aren't good and they're generally zaidi obvious than they are in women but implying these are things that only guys do, well they make wewe seem worse than guys for one thing, generalization, you're generalizing all men to be like this when not all of them are. I can understand when you're working from experience but saying all guys are like this is just mean
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Thank you! I agree with wewe 100%. I don't like when people generalize like that. Not ALL men are like that, and some women can be that way.
MalloMar posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Bluekait said:
I don't like how they stereotype women. They have such expectations of us. We aren't hard to handle. Just tell us we're pretty, buy us a cupcake, and say 'I upendo you'. We don't expect wewe to be Johnny Depp so don't expect us to be a FREAKING model. Another reason is that they want to have sex with us every single day. Women are people too. I have Lost half my guy Marafiki because they believe that a woman should cook, clean, and be good in bed. I am no longer Marafiki with them, especially they sexually harassed me.
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BlondLionEzel said:
Being a guy myself (and raised kwa a single mother) I came to learn that not all men are horrible people!
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yea some men are very kind
sieluvzsoul posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
kassin said:
I hate when guys always feel like wewe owe them something and that they come before a women. I want a man who treats his girlfriend like he would his own mother
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LGYCE said:
One is that most of us refuse to criticize ourselves on maswali like this because a lot of us think we're so awesome. Also, I despise our apparent inability to apologize. Lastly, I hate that so many members of my sex have been so thoughtless and cruel that this swali even needs to be asked.
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Siren-Lamia said:
Their hairiness.
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Lol
cutiepie0310 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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xD also something not that attractive lol xD
Nerdbuster2 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
kaboomgirl said:
Everything lol. That's why I'm into girls.
I'm so so sick of hearing "not ALL men". Like, come on. Of course not every single man out there is terrible, but it doesn't need to be emphasized 24/7. Here's an example of men: if wewe had a bowl full of candy, and wewe knew that 1/5 of them were poisoned, would wewe pick up a handful and eat them?
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So if were to make the same generalization about women wewe wouldn't be offended?
BlindBandit92 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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it's just hard to distrust only some men, au just distrust everyone in general (which, actually, I do a little), when you've been exposed to the disgusting ways of some men, and have had little exposure to the good. Also, having had mostly good experiences with women and people of every other gender besides male.
kaboomgirl posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^Well in the case of distrusting people generally that's something wewe and I have in common. But I guess I go about it somewhat different then.
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cutiepie0310 said:
When they think they can stop trying when they get the girl. Some jjust don't put in the same effort in keeping her as they did getting her. :/
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
Yea cause all men are like that and girls are perfect.
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16falloutboy said:
Only thing is that some guys don't respect women and treat them like toys.
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uploaded900 said:
I hate guys that feel that they must be dominating over women, objectify women, and have no respect for them. Fuckin hate those kinds of men.

Also students onyesha that women are just as perverted as men too
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MarineHolocaust said:
qualities i hate about guys = everything
qualities i hate about girls = everything
lol jk i dont hate anything about guys specifically nor girls specifically
stop with this whole gender fight on here though this aint a damn war why are we generalizing guys in the first place
like..... why was this swali a good idea those qualities can apply to all people
there are plenty of girls like that too
i cant debate rn im fuckin tired but quit it the lot of u
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