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Ive got upendo issues.. well moyo break ones...

Ive loved the same guy for like.. 3 years now.. we went out twice and he turned out to be a massive asshole.. i really miss him.. but at the same time.. i hate him and dont wanna know him. He stopped talkin to me like a mwezi ago.. and im loosing myself.. i really wanna be with him.. being with another guy made me hate myself.. i didnt last a mwezi with another guy, It really hurts, i miss him.. but like.. i dnt know wether to belive that he really loved me.. au that he was using me.. i feel so shit.. i upendo him, i hate him.. i wanna miss him.. but i like.. arrg! its so confusing.
what do i do.. letting him go is the hardest part..
Ive stopped talkin to him like hes stopped talkin to me.. but its not helping me. i miss him .. alot.. all these other people think im heartbroken over the gut i tried to replace him with.. but its a load of shit... but i realy dont know what to do..
 _Blackhearts_xx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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amazondebs said:
woa woa woa whats all this talk about death?

i know it sucks to really like someone and have them turn out to be something else and such but (and not to sound really cliche here) but he really ain't worth it if he's so imature as to not to talk to you

my advice would be to have a night out (or in) with a group a Marafiki maybe watch some films, go for a meal, hang out at the park au i dunno what ever makes wewe happy (iceskating always cheers me up, hard work to take wewe mind off things and lots of giggles when wewe fall over) it won't be a magic over night cure but reminding yourself of the boys come and go and Marafiki are for life ideology is a great start
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thanks (: thats really helpful! ;D
_Blackhearts_xx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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welcome :)
amazondebs posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
cuteinblack6 said:
I feel so sorry for you! i bet wewe are just wanting to die.

well anyways i think wewe should give him up. and wewe dated 2 times? thats not good. i know its hard just to give him up, but look, wewe have a life to songesha on. i bet lots of guys will like you.and he is a massive asshole because he needs to make up his mind.

Just forget about him ok? its fine. its not like someone is going to hurt wewe kwa the choice. just cheer up ok?


hope that helped!

~cuteinblack6~
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Yeah it hurts alot.. and i just wanna yea die.. Like i know, but its hard, we only broke up cause like i thought it was fallin apart.. but when we got back together agin. it was worse.. i just cant belive how stupid i was.. im tryin to let go... i guess (: thanks x
_Blackhearts_xx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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If it wasn't any good when wewe were together then either it's not going to work so I guess you'll have to accept. But I know it reeeeally sucks :( I feel for you.
snoznoodle posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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mm yeah..
_Blackhearts_xx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
JazzLover101 said:
I understand and your just waiting and wanting for death to come. And if wewe really feel like that strong about him start off being his friend that will take the hole out of your moyo and wewe can still tarehe other guys plus if wewe get to know him while your Marafiki with him well maybe eventually maybe wewe could start dating again but at least wewe will have something to stand on while/if wewe tarehe again wewe know zaidi about eachother it will be though at first but its worth it. If this doesn't help just **sigh** just listen to your moyo and think about your possible majibu listen to your inayopendelewa muziki while wewe think it will help wewe even zaidi {trust me!!!}. Give yourself a chance to think about him them for a while just forget about him {and just keep in mind he broke wewe moyo twice ouch}
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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He wont even tak to me, he completelyy ignores me... and if i do talk to h im.. hes just like.. hi.. yeah.. k.. ect..
_Blackhearts_xx posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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