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Birds and the bees have u ever experienced this im scared

o.k i know this is really weird to ask for advice on here but im desperate yesterday my little brother braydon he is 12 had a tarehe and he asked me about stuff like sex and condoms and i didnt know what to say i just alisema go ask mum and now im sitting in my room scared that my little brother is growing up and that soon he will songesha out and never come back if he forgets about me what will i do i mean i have upendo him scince he was born and he loved me pleae give me some advice have u ever experienced this im freaking out and theres no one to talk to about this hhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllllllpppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!
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sehdt said:
Right well firstly wewe did the right thing telling him to talk to mum. Secondly He won't forget wewe and wewe have to realise life moves on he is not a child anymore. He is only 12 but that's very nearly a teenager. I do understand your fears, My brother is 6 years younger than me I am 36 still at nyumbani no job. He got married last year. I do not like his wife I kept hoping it would not happen it did and I know in the inayofuata few years they will have kids and to be honest I keep hoping it wont happen but I know it will. Its hard but life never stands still but I can honestly say that in a crisis my brother is usually brilliant. True story I was having breathing problems when him and his then fiance arrived one sunday he abandoned her and sorted me out and when she and I had an argument I expected him to be on her side he was mainly on mine so blood is thicker than water. Hope this helps.
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Like sehdt had told you, your brother is not going to forget you. Also, it was a good thing (like mentioned before me) that wewe told your mother about this.

Hopefully your mom explained about dates and all that other info that he wanted; I don't know if she's done it before, but she should know of what to tell him. wewe shouldn't be afraid of him moving out au forgetting you; wewe can't forget family members, for one thing. Second, I don't even think he can songesha out. I say "think" because I don't know your location (I'm not saying for wewe to tell me), and that different places have maturity ages. Like where I live, people are considered adults when they're 18 -- 17 in criminal cases.

Don't freak out about everything; it'll be alright.
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