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Stuck in the middle... Please help me!

Ok so I have quite a few friends, but 2 very special ones. The only problem is that they dont like eachother and r very competitive. Over me I mean. Everyday they bribe me with stuff so I can like one them the most and they tug my arms so hard I could be ripped in half! I like them equally, I really do. I tried to explain this to them but they just acted as if they never heard me! They'll do ANYTHING to make me like one of them the most. Eventually, i got really sick of them and completely broke up with both of them in such a dramatic way. Now they r really sorry to me and have even tried to get along for my forgiveness! (Im just still not sure if they r REALLY Marafiki yet tho)... half of me wants to forgive them, half of me doesn't. So... All i wanna know is.. Should I forgive and forget au just leave them for good?
 jamtart01 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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gossipgirlstar2 said:
I think that first of all wewe must learn if they are really Marafiki so as not to do this again to you...If wewe see that they are pretending and they are doing this only for wewe to forgive them and then start all over I think that wewe should leave them for good because wewe can't change two people tha dislike each other...But if they are really Marafiki and care about you, wewe should forgive them... I think that it wouldn't be right if they
were pretending that they are Marafiki just to bring wewe back and then start arguing again...

I hope I helped...

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well thank u ill see what happens on monday :)
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JustLikeSoul said:
I think wewe should wait for a time likehalf mwezi ,maybe it is too long,leave them alone and see their behaviors without wewe and make your decision after that :)
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ohk
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jedigal1990 said:
i personally think wewe should forgive them but let them know that what they did before is not going to be tolerated wewe can't make them be Marafiki and if their not thats still ok as long as they understand that they must respect that wewe like both of them equally and fighting with each other will not help any and will cause wewe not to want to be their friend but really it comes down to how much your friendship means to you. So forgive them but set limits to prevent yourself from the harm of the two of them fighting for wewe because it is not fair for them to make wewe chose between the two hope this helps and wish wewe the best of luck
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sounds good
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joebro521 said:
Well, what i think wewe should do is make sure that they are Marafiki kwa talking to them and making sure. So if they don't work it out then mabey wewe should just tell them that your not going to deal with it and just walk out and let them work it out before u get in the middle.
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babyjay said:
i think wewe should sit them down and tell them that if they where both true Marafiki that they would have never made wewe choose and that if it happens again it will hurt you. i dont think wewe should leave them because true Marafiki are really worth some thing special. hold on to them but explain how wewe feel to them. if wewe need zaidi help let me know.
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