This morning I was in my mums car looking for my iPod and lifted up some tissues.I found some burnt out cigarrette butts.Mum has a past with smoking, and I think she might be smoking again. How do I confront her about this?

I don't know your mom so I can't be sure of how she'd react, but I would just ask her, "Mom are wewe smoking again?"

If wewe want, wewe can send messages to me through your kasha pokezi if wewe want zaidi advice, but my advice is confront her…ask her "Mother, are wewe smoking?"
wewe do realize your Mother can quit smoking if she is without your dad knowing right?

I suggest not treating here like your mother and zaidi like a friend…I don't know why but I guess it helps with keeping ones dignity.

As strange as it is, I once confronted an adult about smoking…I know her for about 10 minutes. My friend au my enemy that was my friend hated me for that and I have no idea why…