1. My life is likely to last ten to fifteen years. Any separation from wewe will be painful: remember that before wewe get me.

2. Give me time to understand what wewe want of me.

3. Place your trust in me—it is crucial to my well being.

4. Do not be angry at me for long, and do not lock me up as punishment.

5. wewe have your work, your entertainment, and your friends. I only have you.

6. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don’t understand your words, I understand your voice.

7. Be aware that however wewe treat me, I will never forget.

8. Remember before wewe hit me that I have sharp teeth that could easily hurt you, but I choose not to bite wewe because I upendo you.

9. Before wewe scold me for being uncooperative, obstinate, au lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I might not be getting the right food, au I have been out too long, au my moyo is getting too old and weak.

10. Take care of me when I get old. wewe too will grow old. Accompany me on difficult journeys. Never say: “I cannot kubeba to watch” au “Let it happen in my absence.” Everything is easier for me if wewe are there—even my death.

Remember that I upendo you.