upendo what do u think when u hear au see it? Well I known that upendo has 2only 2 sides.1.sadness, when u feel heartbroken au lonely. 2. Happness, when u feel upendo au trusted.those are the only 2 sides that are in love. What upendo means to me is a cople that trust,love them 4 ever in there life,and people that will always be with u no matter what happenseds. That is what upendo means 2 me. upendo is the persons that u will be with 4ever in ur hole life. upendo is the KEY only 4 one person and that person is the one that u think is the only one that u will care,and love.