it was a mwaka zamani an after 2 really bad relationships (on here) I was done ready to give I alisema my goodbyes I had my bottle of pain pills and pepis ready to end my life at nyumbani I was going through abuse I was covered in bruises I figured my life wasn't worth living so I was done the night before I was ready to take my life I checked my fanpop ukuta and there was one post that alisema *im wounded* so I checked it this user had been dumped lied to hurt just like I had been I had never talked to this user before but now I was on his ukuta posting a *what happened ans how can I help* a few posts back and forth I learned a friend of mine lied and cheated on him so I attacked her and she deleted her account and me and this user exchanged numbers and we began texting a few days of that he surprised me and called hearing his voice for the first time was ....amazing we talked for 2 hourse straight he asked if I had a computer and I alisema no he promised to send me one and we still texted and called everyday then one morning I woke up to a text form him and it alisema *im going to be straight the fuck up....im in upendo with u and I wont to be mine* I was shocked and I reread that so many times over coffee then I texted him back that I was his we got closer when the computer came through fedex I set up Skype on there and we chatted for the first time in video chat learning zaidi about each other seeing eachother falling zaidi in upendo he also saw the bruises and cuts black eyes we plotted we lived 3000 miles away but he didn't care he sent a taxi to me without thinking of caring I packed my stuff (what I could) and I got in that taxi and boarded the greyhound bus (I was on the road to a 3 states 3 days and nights to a someone I only knew online I knew it was dangerous and yes I was scare but at that point I didn't care* then on thanksgiving night of last mwaka I got off that bus at the Nevada bus station and I was grabbed up but my big teddybear after hugging kissing (my first kiss) we went in to the a near kwa church and got married and I have never regretted it after a few months in Nevada we moved to Hawaii and here we r living and happy ......so never let anyone tell u that online relationships don't work bc my husband and I r living proof that they do! :D