Tunes For A Broken Heart?

So here's my story.
I had a really good guy friend last year.
Then I became Marafiki with another guy because he had a great personality.
Now the first guy hates me and I want my friendship with both to continue.
Instead both friendships are falling apart at their hinges.
Advice?
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Any songs that express this?
(I really need a song)
And don't tell me to post it somewhere else!
(That has happened to me a bunch!)