Relationship Help?

well let me get this straight
there are 2 guys lets call them A and B
so guy A is your boyfriend
B is a close friend
ok..
my advice break up with your boyfriends. (first thing) hujambo to be honest, it better to not be in a relationship then be in one where it feels like nothing. seriously. it not anout wewe getting another boy. it about wewe being happy. if wewe are not satisfied with him then BREAK UP. it not about like wewe know how ppl think if wewe dont have a BF/ GF you're in a way not cool. this issue i would consider as a separate one. seriously. break up.

as for your friend, this depends on a lot of thing. mainly, how much wewe value your friendship with him. cause as far as i know, when wewe get together with a close friend then break up, wewe aren't as close anymore. there is this sort of awkward tension. so it really depends.
GOOD LUCK!

ok, so with the boyfriend (which wewe want to deal with first) if wewe dont like being with him anymore, there is no reason to stay with him. leave him. better no relationship than a dead-end one. and dont stay with him just cause your afraid of being alone, thats no good.

once youve dealt with the boyfriend, then wewe can start to work out your feelings for your friend. the maswali to ask yourself are: do wewe realy like him that way? are wewe willing to risk your friendship with him? would wewe be ok with being just Marafiki with him? takeing that step between Marafiki and dateing is a huge risk, cause once youve taken that step, wewe cant go back. wewe could breakup and go back to being Marafiki but it will never be the same between wewe two, it just wont. then again if wewe realy like him and being just Marafiki with him isnt ok with wewe anymore, then wewe realy dont hav much of a choice, wewe either take the leap au become unhappy with the relationship and drift apart.