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Please help me!!

I'm a bi female, but I can't stand hanging out with other women. I know I'm bi; I'm madly in upendo with my RL gf Ashley. But when gym class comes around; I only stick around the guys. I even feel embarrassed when Ashley kisses me in the hallway.
Why is that!!??
Someone please help me!!!
 YoYoLover4Ever posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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jester616 said:
My first reaction is to ask what is your school like? Are other people tolerant? If not, I can understand why you'd be reluctant when Ashley kisses you. Are wewe generally not fond of PDA?

I asked my resident bi adviser her take on your question. She too prefers hanging out with guys, if only because there's less drama. I know that's quite a generalization, but that's been her situation.

Otherwise, her bi girlfriends are not nearly as dramatic; it's just that her former school is not very LGBT friendly. Hope this response helps somewhat!
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Thanks. And yeah; my school is very open when it comes to people and their sexuality. You'll find that five out of seven kids on their first siku there will admit they're gay; and they're accepted instantly. But it was just different with me. When I admitted it; people shunned me and I felt alone. Then I met Ashley and she asked me out. I feel zaidi comfortable with her when we're alone; when we're not at school. :/
YoYoLover4Ever posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Sorry that people didn't accept wewe at first. Is it any better now? I guess I don't think it's odd that wewe feel zaidi comfortable when wewe two are alone. I've known many couples, regardless of orientation, who prefer not to be affectionate in public.
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Dimentia44 said:
Yeah, sexuality is confusing in that way. The gender and personalities of the people wewe want a friend relationship with and the people wewe want a romantic relationship with can conflict, overlap, blur together... that's why we have that stereotype that straight guys and girls will have Marafiki entirely of their own sex, but will still only tarehe the opposite sex. It's not as set in stone for a bisexual, but the fact that so many people have the majority of their Marafiki the opposite sex that their partner is proves that feeling that way is not a big deal. Wanting to hang with the guys doesn't undermine your sexuality au your relationship with Ashley.

As for being embarrassed about kissing in public, I think you're just being shy. XD
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-EpicCute- said:
If you're new to the whole BI concept, then this is totally normal. Well, at least it is for some people. I'm used to it and it took me no time to adjust. For me it was the opposite: my girlfriend wasn't adjusted to it at first. If wewe feel this way, it may be because you're new to it au wewe haven't told someone that wewe are. A really important someone.
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