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What should I do if a friend kills themselfs?

I know its a weird question. Look I'm having a very VERY rough siku today. My friend on here is thinking of killing himself, the spot him and I like to spend time on is being attacked kwa trolls, and my friend told me he's done.....I'm worried if he's going to kill himself. He came close before and after everything that's going on on the Alpha and Omega spot...he just might do it. Look I'm sorry I came here with a problem but I just need advice on this.....
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PsychadelicSkye said:
My best friend considered killing herself over online abuse of trolling.She was on an online picha sharing site,and many people insulted her pictures and told her to drop dead from how ugly she was. I didn't know what to do at first but i learned that listening and support and taking a break from the site was all she needed. wewe need to watch your friend carefully and just tell him that taking his life isn't going to make the situation better. And tell him many people will miss him including you,and that people on the internet can just be stupid and their opinion means nothing. So basically just be there for him, because death just isn't the right choice.
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zanhar1 said:
Tell him to take a break from this site and tell him just how much wewe need him to live.

Also let your parents and/or his parents know.
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I just hope he comes on again so I can tell him that. Thanks.
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No problem, good luck.
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botchfromhell said:
Remind them that they are loved. Talk to them about their problems & try to prevent it as much as wewe can. Tell them that death solves nothing. That their upendo partner would never meet them and his emotional & mental issues would still follow him
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animegurl23 said:
aww i feel so bad for you! well ripoti the people who are trolling the spot, then tell your friend that his life is important to wewe and many people would be devastated if he died!! i know what youre going through..my bff died of cancer and i was devastated beyond words... tell him that! goodluck ;D
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But every time my Marafiki and I ripoti these trolls they come back, and with each time they come back they take forever to leave.
Metallica1147 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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that sux! well, create your own club 4 alpha and omega and keep it only between wewe too!
animegurl23 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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who are they?
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bubblemonkey123 said:
well first i am so sorry about that! and sekunde tell an adult au his parents au get him to talk about what is making him feel like that....................................I am so sorry!!!
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katetekiku said:
Try to do everything to calm him down. Tell him fanpop doesn't mean anything, and those trolls are nothing but fatty slobs with no lives. They just want to get a reaction. I just hope he doesn't really do it.
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I agree.
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VoicesInMyHead said:
Ok I am NOT making fun of wewe these are legitimate majibu ok.

Make him have a crush on a dead celebrity (do NOT judge me please, I didn't even know who he was until 3 years AFTER he died. And for the record, yes I do still upendo the Olsen twins.)

Tell him to ignore the voices au thoughts. It isn't worth it an he'll just let them win.

Tell a trusted adult this is important.

Make SURE he gets therapy.

Let him know how many people he will hurt if he kills himself.


This worked for me when I started having suicidal thoughts. But they were just intrusive thoughts so I don't know if it will work for him but they're worth a try.....
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vvfrankie said:
just take wewe and your friend to a trusted adult they might know what 2 do trust me
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