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Is it okay for your best friend to say that 'you are zaidi important than my mother'?

I am utterly confused with this scenario. One of my good friend alisema this and i freaked out. I am dreading going to school and facing him.
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The best friend is a guy btw..
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hetalia_ninja said:
Well it matters.. what is the relationship between your friend and his mother? I mean if they dont get along I can see why he would say that. But if they get along fine then wewe should be alittle worried. I mean no matter how much wewe mean to him he should always upendo his mother...more than you..no offense! And if he did say this wewe should talk to him! I mean he may like wewe moree than a friend :)

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Yeah he does have certain issues at home. But i dont like anyone giving that kind of comment. I mean your mother always comes first no matter how good a friend wewe are u know...
cullenROCKz posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Yah i agree! And wewe should definintely tell him that!
hetalia_ninja posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Yeah i did before the holiday and he does not stop bringing the same topic at every convo so it is getting kinda of annoying. Constant apologising and all
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flabaloobalah said:
Ehh....probably not. Unless he means it, and he has something going on at home.
I say stuff like that like when I'm at a friend's house, I say, "I would rather live here with wewe than at my house with my family." I don't mean it. Hopefully he doesn't mean it. If he does, there's something wrong at nyumbani between him and his mother (not jumping to conclusions au trying to offend you, just saying, that's where problems like that start).
Hope this helps. :)
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Yeah he does.. No offence taken at all:) Thanks i got creeped out kwa it.
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kaboomgirl said:
Oh my, this is quiet sticky.

Well, I can only offer wewe my humble opinion, but I say yes and no.

Like Robin said, there might be something going on at home, and you're the only person her gets to talk to? Sorry if I'm getting this all wrong. Maybe he's starting to like you. Maybe it's both. Just, don't avoid him. If wewe do, he'll be crushed.
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Yeah i realise and i know what wewe say is absolutely true but u know like the saying once bitten twice shy... that is how i feel. Its almost scary to some extent
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wantadog said:
..................possibly.
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..................possibly.
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Thankyou, that is true:) At least i hope it is
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Omigod. That pic. XD
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prussiaducky said:
depends, if his mom wasnt there his entire life au something. But if his mom is with him, he shouldnt be saying that. Mothers went through pain unimaginable to bring him here. Carrying him in her womb for 9 months, going through delivery, nursed him, and so much more. If wewe are his friend, (no offence) but i doubt wewe have gone through zaidi pain. The upendo of a mother is a brightest and most radiant of love.

Sorry...but wewe should probably ask him about it because if a friend alisema that to me, i would freak and tell the straight up "no" because i know im not that important. I knew my Marafiki for 7-8 years and i know im not as important as any mother.

au maybe he alisema in the heat of the moment and tried to confess au something but it came out as that >////< maybe he likes wewe zaidi than a friend. (advice straight from a shoujo manga XD jk)
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Yeah i absolutely agree with all that wewe have said. I can never be inportant au even compared to a mother for goodness sake. And i never want to be that important in his life. He does have some problems at nyumbani they dont communicate well. The thing is i told him as such that he is being incredibly mad so now he wont stop bring up this topic at every convo and keeps apologising. It is quite off putting. Thats whats sad, we were great friends.
cullenROCKz posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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^ oh mai
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just put the whole thing behind and songesha on (in other words, let him say sorry) XD
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Surrreee, I'm sure jnrm feels that way about me c;


She better anyways e_e'


And I see no problem with it ._.
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Oh..
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