My friend was 11 at the time and I was 10. I was only in mwaka 5, while she was in mwaka 6. Obviously, she was in mwaka 6 where wewe get a nurse to come in and briefly have the talk
I had a van in Wales. So did she. At that time one of our mates, who was 14, had a boyfriend. My friend caught them doing things(like fingering each other etc). She found tampons and a bra on the park and stuff. I wasn't there at the time.
One day, when I was there she convinced em and somebody else to spy in the girl. We followed her and her boyfriend round in secret. Her boyfriend was doing a lot of 'sexual stuff' to her. We almost got caught kwa th em and run off. Later on we spoke to this girl and she alisema she wants to break up with him, but he won't let her au he will tell her parents. Meaning something went on. Later that day, we saw the boy pushing her against the ukuta forcefully at this point we thgouht lets do she,thing and obviously we was 10/11 mwaka olds so he stopped. He alisema go away and pushed us forward. I don't know what happened after that.
Then a few months later, my friend(still 11) got a boyfriend. We got pretty close with his 13 mwaka old sister. She was a joker. When we was having this sale to get rid of old stuff, she didn't realise I was only in mwaka 5 and dint know about any of this stuff. She went on about sexual body parts. Joking.
Then, my friend(still 11) was on about her mum alisema she might not be able it have babies. I alisema why and she alisema that she flinches often(I never mentioned it) and it was squashing all the eggs.
Then, she went on puberty to me. About periods, tampons,pads etc.
I was clueless to all of this. So I just typed in all the words she alisema and got the definitions up. I found this site explaining everything and online taught me it all. My parents don't know I know they just never mentioned the talk to me.
I remember when I was 10/11 I was her first one in my mwaka to know about this. So while in the lessons if they mentioned it others would laugh their heads off I would understand. I remember letting stuff slip out one siku about periods and my Marafiki looked at me like what? The teacher was even madder. I was like oops. My friend at school was saying that she was bleeding and stuff. The signs of a period basically so I blurted it out.
my most fave onyesha of the Sisters of Europe, and i thought of my episode of when they went to Laos and Denmark was going on STUPID like when Lithuania was just standing their and when France came up and then on first of part 2 when Switzerland was dancing on the side of the yellow thing that was dancing looking-like, (i saw it today) and Switzerland was dancing with it, IT WAS SO FUNNY WHEN LITHUANIA WAS DANCING WITH IT TO, SHE NEVER LEARNED HOW TO DANCE!!! that episode was so funny
I dunno if it's just me cause when I was in the 5th grade, we divided our classes where all the girls go to one of the classrooms with a female teacher and all the boys go do the same with a male teacher. That's how we did the talk.