I am sure lot of wewe won't agree with me but anyway this is my opinion. This riot going on that HP is better than Twilight is beyond me. These vitabu are riveting and thrilling in their own way.
First Twilight, yes I too realise it has too much of upendo and unrealistic charecteristics in people. However wewe have to say it is great piece of imagination. We have to understand that HP plot is far bigger than that of Twilight. It is a plot where the survival of the world depends on one character whereas in Twilight it is just the fate of two nyota crossed lovers and the obstacles faced kwa them. HP plot is far zaidi enthralling than that of T.
The events in HP are wrtitten in a exemplary way. In Twilight they just seem to drag. However when it comes to the interactions and situations explained kwa Bella it does in a way relate to our thought process.
In HP the characters grow in the vitabu which makes wewe feel like wewe knoe them but in T no such thing exists but wewe must say the human characters can reflect reality in a different level. The vampire and the wizards, from small days we were taught that they don't exist. In T there is a element of darkness weaved into the upendo which on a subconcious level we might not like however this is no reson to hate it. It Stephenie Meyer's potrayal of Wanyonya damu as it differs from others. Like wizards are admiring J.K Rowlings potrayal of wizards.
The bottom line is that both vitabu have their upsides and downsides. We are not critising the vitabu but the author. This is their imaginations. Some think HP characters are better because that is how JKR wanted it and it differs to SM characters. Nobody thinks au imagines the same.
Another factor is that people have different preferences. Some may like Supernatural and romance and others mystery, thrill and adventure. So it might not be the vitabu at all but rather wewe don't agree with another person's preferences.