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I just turned 16 and i have never had a boyfriend au have never been kissed. Am i weird? whats wrong with me?

Just about everyone i know has had au is in a relationship. and i am the oldest and am just about the only one that hasn't been in a relationship. i feel so strange coz they talk about there relationships and all i can do is smile and nod.
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DreamyGal said:
Aww, sweetie...there's NOTHING wrong with you! I'll turn 25 inayofuata month, and when I was 16 I was JUST like you! I didn't have my first "real" kiss with a boy until I was 17 and was 19 when I had my first real boyfriend. Like you, I was the only one in my mduara, duara of Marafiki that didn't have a b/f. Don't let it get wewe down...it will happen for wewe when the time is right, and it's usually when wewe least expect it. Just keep your head up high! Don't get in a hurry...enjoy being young.
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melikhan said:
same about me
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but i should say that nothing is wrong with u because 1 siku u'll find that person and have the best time of your life and ppl will get jealous of u!
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hpVStwiVSthg said:
no but nither have i
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PengyGirl said:
Your not weird! wewe just haven't found that special someone yet!
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Margooterd said:
Same situation here ;)
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Lackson4ever85 said:
Nothing is wrong with you:). is many on your age some dont had have a boyfriend au be kissed:).
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dezi94 said:
Hun your not weird it just means ur waiting for that right person and maybe the boys ur age r still immiture wait for the right one
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Marcii said:
It is okay.There is nothhing wrong with you. wewe are just probably to preety and guys think they are not good enough for wewe but wewe will definetely find that special someone for wewe soon. I went through the same thing still kind of am but wewe will find your special someone he may be closer than wewe think!
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thespikedturtle said:
No, you're not weird at all! I've never had a boyfriend either! XD (I'm a guy) But I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone. (I mean, I've kissed my parents and grandparents, and another person that's kinda like a mom to me, but no one in that way.) I know exactly what wewe mean though, wewe may seem different in your head, but you're not a weirdo :)
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Eline_K said:
Don't beat yourself up over this, wewe are perfectly normal!

I had the same problem. I had my first kiss when I was 17, it was two weeks before my 18th birthday. And I can tell you, it was worth waiting for!

I wanted my first kiss to be special, with someone I cared about and felt completely comfortable around, and I got exactly that! So my advice, ignore what everyone thinks and go with your instinct! If it doesn't feel right (enough), wait for the one that does!

As for the boyfriend, don't worry about that too. I just turned 19, and never had a real relationship. Not because I don't want to, but because the right guy hasn't came along just yet. It does bother me, but I don't let it get to me.

My time will come, and so will yours!

Hope this helped!

Love,

Eline
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Jillywinkles said:
I had my first kiss when I was 18. You're not weird! au if wewe are, then wewe have plenty of company :P
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darkmoon47 said:
hujambo u and me r in the same boat.
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jbluvhim56 said:
absolutely not ur just fine!!! AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL U UR NOT
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lailalove said:
there is nothing wrong with u i bet u are amazing without even talking to u

boyz are like this take the esay apples from the mti they are bad bec, of that the apples on the juu think there is something wrong with them
but the truth there is nothing wrong with them
& there will be a boy who will be brave ebnough to come all the way up
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sexxiemogirl said:
hujambo its all good dont be in a rush its better if u wait for someone truly awesome. i rushed my first kiss and it sucked so dont make the same mistake ok? peace and upendo girl!
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DannyDropDead said:
Nothing wrong with that hun:)
I'm 19 and i've only just got my first long term girfriend. She's only 17 and she knows zaidi than me at it! lol your not the only one. Go for what wewe moyo says not what other people say. If wewe want to wait,then wait..don't follow other peoples ways just because they think it's the right choice. Its your choice that matters,even if it's the worse choice in the world to your friends.
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chickencheese said:
You're not weird. I'm twelve and most of the girls in my class have boyfriends, and I'm the only one who doesn't. Tht doesn't make me weird. It's up to wewe when wewe go out with people. :)
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animelove30 said:
No there is nothing wrong with you. It's just that wewe haven't found that special person to share your first kiss with yet! That's all!
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inluvwithheath said:
oh dont worry wewe kno 1 siku wewe will have the best b/f ever cuz wewe waited 4 the rite person n he will upendo u very much :):):):):)

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