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Please someone!!! I have a boy problem!

This might be the only time I will ever fall in love, so I need help. There's this boy, and he's kinda of the class clown, and usually I wouldn't fall for such an immature freak but I do like funny peopel and he's kinda cute, so I grew like a girly crush on him. I told my friend and she told another girl, and that girl told him, and now he's like starting to become a jerk.

I know guys a little, and I know some guys do it so that it doesn't look like they are interest in you, but he actually flirts in front of a girls right in front of my face. Even though he's kinda of a jerk, I can't stop thinking about him. I'm like wall-E, I just want to hold his hand one time, and would never ask for nothing else.....EVER!

I'm not desperate, I can get any guy, it's just.....I want him. All the guys in my school seem to have girlfriends anyways, so. He's also on the football team, and everyday I stay until 7:00 pm to watch him, his number is 12, and I'm on the volley ball team and my number is 21.
Funny right?!
:D

So I need some tips on how him to notice me, I was thinkign about to try to act like I'm not interested, because he seems to like a challenge.

So please help me. I know I sound pathic and desperate but I just want him to at least talk to me. Ever since he found out, he's been ignoring me like I'm not even here!

So if wewe could give me tips I would be most graeful!
 dxcfan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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shivers-zimmy said:
Umm I Don't Think He's Messing Around! I Think He's Trying To Give wewe Signals To Back Off! However, There Are Things wewe Can Do!

1. Explain To Him That What Happened Was A Mix Up And wewe Don't Like Him! Then wewe Guys Can Laugh About It Later And Become Friends! Eventually He'll Realize He Likes You!

2. Tell Him To Stop Being A Jackass And Ignore Him! Guys Most Always Want What They Can't Have! He Just Doesn't Know That In Reality, He Can Have You!

3. wewe Could Always Make Him Jelouse! Just Make Sure That The Other Guy Doesn't Like wewe At All au You'll Just Get Another Problem!

4. songesha On! Not Everything Works Out With Guys, This Could Be One Of Those Times Where It Doesn't! You're Young, You'll Surely Find upendo Elsewhere!

5. Pick One Of The Above And Stick To It!


I Give wewe My Best Wishes! -Elizabeth :)
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I guess your right, but I like when a guys grow naturally close to me
dxcfan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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LOL @ #1! 'Hey wewe know how *girl's name* told wewe I liked you? She got it wrong... I like someone else...' That's a good one!
iandamonfan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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iandamonfan- It's Worked For Me Before! lol
shivers-zimmy posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
djsheshe said:
I thnk u shld take it down a notch and act like nothing happened. maybe things will get back to normal. and if they dnt, and since u like him, u shld just bring the topic up again, and ask him just to say it bluntly, cause i thnk part of this is that u r confused as to weather au not he likes u back. i thnk just ask him to say wats on his mind and wat he thinks of the situation

he cld:

a) tell u that he likes u
b) tell u that he doesn't

if its a) then yay, im happy for u. but if its b) i thnk that it was just meant to happen like that and well...move on. there are a lot of other guys out there. :/
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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But wewe see, every time I do try to talk to him, he ignores me, he never did this before he knew I like him
dxcfan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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then he possibly cld like u back, and i think to find out, u need to NEED TO, get him to tlk to u, ok. u hve to find out. and dnt get anyone else to do it, u need to do it yourself.
djsheshe posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
doggee said:
OH! Big prob! I'm a guy and the thing about us generally is ,we may not like the girl who likes us. And we probably like 'the one' which ,at first not even notices us! so to get noticed kwa him, wewe should look beautiful (-in the way wewe are.don't try to change yourself.) and should have some spark that others don't have.Now..how to do it...better ask a girl.
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millerjordan said:
idk i have the same prob

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ruby1000 said:
I am not very good with boys so I cant really give wewe any advice but what I would do. I am very blunt so I would probably just confront him. Not like march up to him and ask but inayofuata time he is nasty just tell him to back of au just ask wewe what his problem is. Act like he is your friend not a crush when wewe are near him. I think that it would be easier to fall for someone when they are your friend first.

Some boys tease au are in fact nasty when they want wewe to notice them. I don't know if this is right but * shrug *. As for the flirting with other girls in front of wewe this could either be a ploy to make wewe jealous au he doesn't like you.

Sorry to put it like that. I do not think that wewe are hopeless and like wewe alisema if wewe are in upendo then wewe should stick it out and even if he doesn't like wewe at least wewe can understand why.

Hope that helps...
Good luck


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