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MY friend just broke up with his girlfriend (who is also my friend) and i really wank to ask her out. What should i do

I have liked this girl for ages. tehy dated for a mwaka and i want to ask her out.
 killer22 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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r-pattz said:
First of all, wewe gotta ask him if it's okay with him if wewe two go out. Bros before hoes, as the saying goes.

Second, give it time, anyway. Don't talk to him au her yet, because if they just broke up, they're both still hurting. A mwaka is a pretty big chunk of time to be dating someone. Their feelings are raw, and wewe don't want to upset anyone au end up as a rebound. I think wewe should give it at least a full month, personally, which is enough time for them to do most of their hurting and get a songesha on. I know it'll seem like a long time to you, but it's best to proceed with caution.


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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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I agree
JBfan516 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Excellent answer as always
TruBerries posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
2dolphn97 said:
Tell your friend how wewe feel and ask if it's ok that wewe ask her out. If he says no than just give it time
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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But the thing is. he broke up with her
killer22 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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don't be such a piece of shit
ecpjll posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
azkaban said:
That's some serious shit you've got going on there.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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IKR
killer22 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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XD
r-pattz posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
ecpjll said:
and wewe call yourself a friend? Bullshit.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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hujambo one of the reasons he asked her out in the first place was because i wanted to
killer22 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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@ecpjill: wewe act like it's possible to control who wewe like. It's not.
purpledemigod posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
samuraibond005 said:
wewe wank to ask her out, that's kinky. XD

Anyway, to be serious, I would do what my friend did when he was in that situation, he asked me if I was okay with it, and then proceed with caution. (I had no problem with him dating my ex, he was a good guy, and heck, she wasn't my girlfriend anymore. I didn't care.)
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Thanks
killer22 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Reema11 said:
Ur frnd have broken up with her......so....he shouldn't hav any prob....
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wierdgem7 said:
dont ask her out yet. they dated for a YEAR! a mwaka is a long time. make sure your friend whose a guy is ok with it first. cos u will lose a friend if u ask her out now! cos my friend dated this guy for six months then he dumped her and my other friend started dating him. they still hate each other to this day...

so just wait a while, make sure your friend (guy) is ok with it, then go for it. lol, i just dumbed down my whole paragraph. i shoulda done that in the first place lol
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i'm trying to comfort her
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princess_9 said:
I think u shud ask ur fren if its fin wif him first then if he say yea then hik up ur skirt, upindo an ask her out good luk j/k haha
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beepboop said:
If wewe do this is will be fine:
You:*goes up to the girl* Hey
Girl:Hey whats up?
You:Nothing
Girl:Oh cool
You:Will wewe go out with me?
Girl:Sure
Perfect ending :P
If wewe mess up it will be like this:
You:*Goes up to her* hujambo wanna go out?
Girl:Fhuck no! *b!tchslap*
Poor ending
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purpledemigod said:
Everybody else pretty much covered most of it. Ask your friend if he's okay with wewe and his ex going out, but wait for a while first. A week, a month, whenever wewe feel that they're over each other. If he says yes, go ahead and ask her out.
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