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I just started 8th grade. There were 3 new kids at my bus stop, 2 are 6th graders and 1 is an 8th grader. I chat with him sometimes and he's fitting good in my school. Today I just started to have a crush on him. I might wanna go out with him cause he's cute and has a good personality, so what should I do to go out with him? (PS: He's not in a relationship)
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lolibarbie said:
Just be yourself, number one. Subtly flirt a lot, laugh at his jokes, smile! Is he in any of your classes? If yes - chat it up about the latest test au quiz! If no - pass him in the halls? Smile, wave, au even say 'Hi!' if feeling confident! Good luck! (:
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Thanks and kwa the way, he's on my bus and in my Jazz Band class! :)
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Goldilottes said:
Ok well its good you're getting on well with him and that he must be really nice to wewe if wewe already have a bit of a crush on him.
But remember you've only just started 8th grade, so you're, what, 12? and wewe only just started the crush today! so it's very, very early days to start deciding wewe want to go out with him, as thats quite a big thing.
I'm really happy for wewe that you've got your first crush, as i remember my first time too. However, wewe definitely need to give it some time to blossom into a relationship and not rush into anything. It's good that there the spark, as thats a start. But wewe have to let it develop on its own for the first little while, as wewe don't want to scare him off already kwa being too forward.
Then if it feels right wewe can go from Marafiki to 'friends with benefits' thenyou can start thinking about a relationship. Trust me, I rushed into things once because I was swept away on the moment, and this was when I was 14. It didnt last because I didnt give the relationship enough time to blossom in its own time. You're young, so wewe have loads of time for that. My advice would be to just take a backseat at this moment in time and watch as your relationship developes into something amazing. I can promise wewe it will turn out better in the long run that way.
In the mean time, keep seeing him and hanging out with him, then maybe as early as a few weeks time if wewe feel ready, wewe can start taking things further. get to know what he likes, be yourself, smile and flirt, then later maybe ask him if there are any girls he happens to like and watch his reaction. If wewe feel brave enough wewe could hold his hand.. and make sure wewe always sit together with him on the bus.
Good luck hunni x

Lottey <3 x
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thanks, kwa the way I'm 13 not 12
InuYasha11 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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kk ^^ x
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