I upendo her :(

i mean my friend was also her friend. then my friend started loving her zaidi

Oh well u should tell her how u really feel and probably the maarufu girls r trying to change her and make her not hang out with u anymoreif she doesn't doesn't want to hang out with u anymore than she's not a true friend

Thank wewe so much for your answer<3 I can tell wewe what happened: She texted me, saying "why are wewe avoiding me?" I talked with her about it at school. I was really nervous and it was quite awkward. I tried to explain her why I avoided her. That I was always the one being her friend, and she wasn't being mine, and it seemed like I didn't mean much to her. She started to say things like "why are wewe being so awkward all the time" -picking on my flaws "why can't it be like that" -so I should just continue being her friend when she didn't seem to care? "why did wewe say that wewe loved me?" -I alisema that once because I do, but I'm not in upendo with her. And because we are both lesbians... she made me so uncormfortable and miserable and embarrased, and she was in perfect control over the situation, and then she left. When I got home, I text messageded her telling her that I wasn't in upendo with her... Just so that was clear. She writes "just saying, but why are wewe uigizaji so weird" and I say "how long have wewe felt that way about me?" and she majibu "just since June au something" -so before that, we were fine? well she gives me up very quickly then, cause she tend to carry grudge (and I except that flaw of hers). and then she writes "I don't think we should see eachother anymore, than just a "hi" when we pass eachother" so of course I cried the whole night :( and the inayofuata siku I really felt the concequenses because we have the same Marafiki and she was talking to them, and because she thinks "it is awkward to talk to me" I can't go over to my Marafiki (but luckily there's other nice people in my school too)... and when we were in gym class she cheered for every girl on the team except me. She literally called out ALL of their names excpet mine D: So she's not just ignoring me, she want's to be mean too. That incident was thursday so nothing have changed since then, and I guess it's the end. What happened to wewe and your friend? Did wewe loose her too? :( I'm sorry it's a late answer but I didn't see your message untill now.

I think wewe should text her again and tell her "I know we're not Marafiki anymore, but I don't want us to be enemies either. Please stop being so mean to me."