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In desperate need of help....

Okay so I asked a swali the other siku about bumping into my ex last week after 5 months without seeing him and I bumped into him again today and I saw him twice again, the first time I saw him we walked past each other he alisema "alright" meaning like sup and i just looked at him, the sekunde time i bumped into him he looked at me but i didn't even look at him once, i just ignored him but i could see him in the corner of my eye looking at me. The swali I have is I keep seeing him everywhere lately and i'm not going to be able to get over him if i keep bumping into him because it brings the memories back..what can I do? :'(
 RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Cries_Bloodlova said:
wewe have many opctions one of them is wewe can accept the feelings wewe have and try and get back together with him. ignore the feelings and ignore him au try and songesha on. au wewe can talk to him and see if wewe guys could be friends, and maby zaidi thoses are just some of the options wewe have love. good luck!! XD
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thank wewe :) and i think i'll go with the moving on option :) he dumped me so I doubt he wants to get back with me
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
MarMar_XigLux said:
Sit and think.

Maybe he's trying to rebuild your relationship. Maybe he still wants to be friends; despite him being your ex.

If wewe don't want to interact with him in any way, just keep ignoring him and he'll eventually leave wewe alone (that is, if he's trying to get wewe talking and rebuild the relationship).

If he's not trying to do anything and wewe just accidentally bump into each other all the time, still, keep ignoring him. Moving on is your best choice.

Then again, I had zero experience when it comes to BF's and relationships so I might sound like an idiot.

Good luck.
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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Thank wewe :) and every single time I see him he will look at me and not approach me, why do wewe think that is?
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Maybe he doesn't know what to do/say. The fact he doesn't simply ignore wewe makes me believe that he wants to at least be Marafiki with you. OR, there's something else going through his mind. I'm not sure. Either way, if it continues to happen, I suggest wewe should come up to him and openly ask: "Hey, do wewe want to say something?" Hopefully he will honestly answer you.
MarMar_XigLux posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Yes it is! he messed up, he should be coming up to me apologizing for the shit he put me through
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
gchristianson17 said:
well mabee its a sign...whyd u break up try it again.... mebee itll work out, me probably still likes u if he keeps staring at u...
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
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He dumped me cause he needed to sort his life out. And no it won't work out
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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If it didn't work the first time, it wouldn't work a sekunde time
RnBStar13 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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then why duz he stare at you...you never know...
gchristianson17 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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I don't know, I'm wondering that myself lol....
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