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Please, please help me...

Okay. I am in eight grade right now, and in sixth grade, I fell in upendo with a guy. But I made an awful mistake. I told him, he told the whole school, and now I can't even talk to him without getting nervous out of my mind. I still like him and its been two years. Everyone calls me "obsessed". I'm so, so, so sick of it does ANYONE know what I can do to get over him? Don't give the usual "oh don't think about him" au "like another guy" crap. I need real advice PLEASE its ruining my life.
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a lot like my situation only mines not as long
hontwilightfan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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It's also like my situation, except I never got the guts to tell the guy I like him. I'm glad I didn't, because he doesn't like me... so it's kind of a win-lose situation. Anyways. I'm not sure what to say about your situation... Good job on having the guts to say that wewe like him to his face, even if that's what ruined your life. The people who are calling wewe obsessed are wrong. It's hard to get over a crush. !! Idea randomness. I'll post it as an answer. =)
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roseteaxx said:
I totally understand how wewe feel (I'm going through something similar, so kubeba with me...)

wewe may not like it, but I think you're just going to have to wait for it to pass. This guy sounds like a jerk. I think wewe understand that. I know it's so easy to say that, to say "he's a jerk, and I don't need that, so I'll just like someone else." But it's not that easy in reality. In real life, wewe can't always change the way wewe feel. It's really annoying right now, but do not worry. wewe eventually will find another guy to like, and hopefully, this one will be far zaidi decent.

As for the rest of the school, don't worry about them. Middle school is the time when wewe care most about what others think of you. But remember; wewe don't need their approval. They're calling wewe obsessed, and if they are bugging wewe over it, remind yourself that they aren't the ones wewe need approval from. Like Dr. Seuss's famous quote goes, "Be who wewe are and say what wewe feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

Like I said, I know it's so much easier alisema than done. But have confidence. wewe will get past it eventually. It's just a phase. (And if wewe are really desperate at some point, it sometimes helps me to find something I really, really upendo (for me it's Harry Potter, but for wewe it may be something different) and focus on that for a while.)
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allieclark123 said:
this has happened to me and i didnt get over him till my boyfriend came along and told me he loved for who i was and tht he would never brake my heart!! ik wewe dont want to hear this but go for someone else tht like u for who U R not for wht wewe can be!!!! srry if this didnt help!!! GOOD LUCK!!:(
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posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita 
writer67 said:
geepers his loss, as now wewe can see how mature he really is, but so too can the whole shcool, who else heard wewe say those words, i bet there was zaidi said. he had a treasure before him and he could have had more. i hope wewe have woken up to him, for he isnt a real person , very immature, and wewe upendo someone , jeepers, what did he do for that, he didnt save your life. and wewe still havent got over him. jeepers, ok sleep tonight where your feet normally go, and if u havent changed feelings , u may need asprin and a call to the doctor, lol. but rememember the crap. if wewe had been stuck somewhere he would not rescue u, hed run and save himself, au go look for an umbrella. but do something for yourself at the end of the week . reward yourself for the hard work u have put into ur studies, change a little something of you,clothes , hair, bag, scent,hat,ribbons,mohawk, and become stronger. dont jump into the deep end again unless u check the water, and do ur homework. ud like. but u never know what is hidden. u r obssed in finding upendo for its waht we all look for in our journey of life, he will never quite get there, for he loves his own reflection, and others block his view, and if u cant still get over him, watch out as u may trip over his umbrella. u made no mistake, u had words changed, u picked the wrong guy to like. now back to work your future there will be time for that, when wewe become powerful and rich from your smarts of awesome paying job of LOVE;-]
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this helped ME! lol xxx
hontwilightfan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
tdacrazy6 said:
That happened to me, too. It's not the best situation. I ignored it though. They alisema I was obsessed even though I just confessed. All I alisema was, at least I had the guts to tell him. I didn't get made of (besides my brother)
This all started because wewe decided to confess. I think wewe should talk with him.
I did that, too. If he says don't talk to him au people call wewe obsessed, demand to talk to him. Hope this helps ^w^
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shivers-zimmy said:
I would listen to the first 4 who answered this question. But I'm going to tell wewe something that they forgot to mention.

Maybe he likes you. In 6th grade most boys care about sports and video games. Most don't give a damn for girls. Have wewe ever considered that wewe were the 1st girl to actually like him and he freaked out because his life wasn't ready for a relationship?

If he's still a jerk to you, he may still actually like you. Most guys don't fully mature until about 40. So he still thinks that being mean is flirting. With that alisema though, he's still not ready for a relationship with wewe yet. He's still immature and maybe one siku he'll grow up. But while waiting around, I suggest getting some real relationship time with someone else. If it was meant to be, he'll come around. I know, it hurts. But trust me it's worth it.

If he's nice to wewe now, forgive him for what happened two years ago. And why not remind him of your feelings without bluntly telling him? Charm him into liking you. And if wewe end up getting him, to hell with the people that call wewe obsessed. If wewe don't, at least wewe know wewe tried. And in the end, you'll upendo knowing wewe went after it instead of backing down.

All My Best Luck~
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purpledemigod said:
I was kusoma another swali before yours: MarMar_XigLux's swali about her imagining a perfect guy. wewe gave an answer saying that wewe did that too. Maybe wewe can use that to take your attention away from the guy that wewe like.
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