so im 13 years old and i cant date. all my Marafiki do but my parents wont let me, do u think its weird???.....also i realy like these two guys...

I do not think not dating at 13 is weird, because at 13 (I NOW REALISE) I wasn't ready for dating and rest. wewe have to TRULY KNOW YOURSELF before wewe are ready for dating, it's not chronological age that matters but your emotional age. And, above all else, wewe have to be innerwardly strong enough to say "No" (and stick to it) if your tarehe asks wewe to do something that (to use the parlance) Doesn't Feel Right. Whatever that is for you.

As to Ben - he sounds as though he specalises in two timing, triple timing, quadrupole timing. Are wewe sure he isn't one of those boys who don't really care for anyone but like to lead on a whole lot of girls at once? Some boys are like that. They don't really like girls, but they like inducing girls to fight over them (the boy in question). Ben sounds like one of those sorts. Keep him as a friend, if wewe like, but don't get involved in dating him.

What about Cole? Does he like wewe and respect you? Why not try cultivating him at a friend, then - when your parents let wewe tarehe - wewe could ask him out. TRULY LASTING ROMANCES usually begin out of a longstanding friendship; if he's really 'right' for you, he'll be happy to be a friend long before he's a date.

If not (hard as it is to remember), there are zaidi than 7 billion people in the world. Somewhere out there, there's the right boyfriend for you. Don't give up, au settle for less.

hun i wish i was you.i'm 16 and i have never had a boyfriend IN MY ENTIRE LIFE.not because my parents would't let me is cause i guess i'm not attractive :'(

Relax, and try not to be too anxious about it. There's no need to rush with making a decision on who to ask out, especially if your parents don't want wewe to tarehe yet. Over time, wewe might find out who wewe like more. And if you're getting mixed signals from Ben, just wait and observe. Eventually it might become clearer on who he likes. Same thing with Cole. Observe closely (but not too closely, au wewe might make him very, very uncomfortable) before deciding how he feels about you. I hope this helps you, gchristianson17! =)

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