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So, I think I might actually like a guy I met online?

Sorry for the length I just want wewe to understand my dilemma.

Basically I met this guy online and we were just chatting and asking each other questions. The same night he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. We were texting for a bit then he called me. We were on the phone for almost 4 hours and it was very good conversation. I felt the chemistry and I'm pretty confident he did to kwa the things he said. So then I said, "I'm sorry for being so impulsive but I like talking to wewe and I would like to talk with wewe in person." He alisema he didn't think that was impulsive at all because whether au not I alisema that he would have still told me he's interested in getting to know me a bit zaidi but wants to talk zaidi on the phone before we meet in person to get rid of those awkward first tarehe feelings. And I alisema I comepletely agree and that’s perfectly fine with me.

The following days later he kept asking for pictures of me and I can't remember exactly what I alisema but it was something to the effect of why does he want so many and he alisema because he likes what he sees and that's it. Then he alisema he already knows I want him to like me zaidi then just for my body so it’s cool. I didn’t know exactly what that meant and I really didn’t wanna ask him so I didn’t.

From everything he says to me I think he's interested like he alisema when we were talking that first night on the phone. But it's like I'm in the one that initiates the conversation sometimes and it's not him. So that same night I asked him something, he answered me and asked me a swali back. I answered him then he alisema something then instead of replying I fell asleep and haven't spoken to him since. It's been two days and nothing...

So my swali is: I don't know what to do. Is this some kind of game for him? Is he trying to play hard to get? Did he lose interest? au does he think that I’m not interested since I haven’t texted him for awhile?

I just don’t wanna screw up my chances wit
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Pink_Love said:
First I think meeting people online is scary. so if wewe do meet this person do it in a crowded place && have Marafiki near wewe so they can just keep an eye on you.

Okay now I think he might be getting uninterested because meeting someone online is fun at first but then it gets boring if wewe dont hang out with each other. && he could possibly have a real life outside of the technology && he is zaidi interested in that at the moment. if wewe want to get to know this guy zaidi text him au call him && meet him but in a salama way like i said. && see if the chemistry is there in person. but be salama if wewe keep talking to him. because personally i dont like people meeting each other online && forming a relationship so soon like after they meet for one time && then they are instantly together. wewe cant know someone until wewe have spent a good amount of time with them.

So just be careful && take the lead && text au call him first. if he does not reply soon then just forget it && songesha on. hopefully meet someone in person && not online. cause all online people scare me a bit. wewe never know who your talking to.

&& dont send him no pictures of wewe au any zaidi pictures of you. not till wewe have met him a few times in person.
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Pink_Love wewe alisema exactly what i wanted to say! I agree 100%.
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noahnstar1616 said:
To be honest SweetFemme, to be honest......





















I don't know. I think guys who play hard to get are just a waste of time. And if he Lost interest, so what? Excuse me for being cliche, but there are plenty of other samaki in the sea.
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