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I really need some help...

So my boyfriend broke up with me a week zamani saying that he cant handle a girlfriend (well a relationship) and school...he a junior so i guess that makes sense...i guess and well asked him..i alisema "So what, did wewe just fall out of upendo with me?" and he alisema "Im confused right now and im not sure i mean i guess that falls in that catagory." I was moyo broken...im mean two days before we were fight about who loved eachother more....hah...and I just dont know what happened....he told me about a thousand times Its not you...its not you...but something still makes me feel like it was me! and he still wants to be friends...like we used to be...but we are just very awkward....i mean we have one class together and i can just feel his eyes on the back of my head! And I dont know what to do because i cant eat anymore....i can never finish meals...i just get nausous a few bites iin...my Marafiki are all worried about me trying to give me chakula and stuff and freaking out but i mean i just dont know what to do!! and whenever i seen him i shake and my stomach like EXPLODES! When i go to sleep at night i cant get him out of my head! He was my first real upendo and I just felt like myself around him....Im broken and I dont know what to do...
 hetalia_ninja posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Waterwhip said:
EAT. Your not doing any good kwa not eating. Even wewe get sick. Please eat. Your not going to change the situation kwa starving yourself.

Be there for him. He's confused. In his head, everything is thrown around. He doesn't know what he wants, au what he needs. Have his back. A girl and boy can be supportive to each other for a long time and just be friends. But after a while, he'll fall for you. He'll realize who was always there. And he'll know what he needs. Don't think it's awkward. Think to yourself "this isn't awkward" and calm down your nerves. Keep yourself believing everything will be okay, because it will. Break the ice. Joke around. Use some sarcasm. He sounds like a smile would do him good.

And last, be strong. It's hard to be strong. It's hard to hide things and it's hard to smile. But don't give up on yourself. I know you're broken. But look around yourself. Everyone is broken. Keep wearing that label, and that's all you'll ever be.

I know I don't know you, but stay strong, for me :) and if wewe ever need to talk please feel free to message me
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im sorry i didnt see this a while ago...but thank wewe so much! I starting eating again! and he got a girlfriend which threw me down a hole again but im surviving it and im getting better im happy again :)
hetalia_ninja posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
connieandbecky2 said:
I had the same problem as wewe and I didn't eat either but my family and Marafiki helped. wewe need to be yourself again before wewe even met him. Go out with Marafiki and be yourself. wewe don't need to be yourself round him yes he migt be confused but give him time and he will explain he will come back they always will. Trust me with Marafiki and family on your side what can go wrong.
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I had the same problem as wewe and I didn't eat either but my family and Marafiki helped. wewe need to be yourself again before wewe even met him. Go out with Marafiki and be yourself. wewe don't need to be yourself round him yes he migt be confused but give him time and he will explain he will come back they always will. Trust me with Marafiki and family on your side what can go wrong.
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