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ok my boyfriend and have been dating for 4 days and he already tried to kiss me and called me babe and alisema i upendo you. what do I do

i would break up with him but my friend told me not too
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Oh and i forgot I met him 2 weeks zamani when he moved here from florida
LiamLover87132 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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It is a red-flag...at least be watchful, but I say RUN.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Invincible321 said:
It seems like you're not comfortable with this, so let him know how wewe feel. If he still doesn't slow it down, wewe should break up with him. Good luck!
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awww thanks I am fanning you! :)
LiamLover87132 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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thanks wewe for the add!
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faiyah226 said:
Just tell him hes moving too fast and take your relationship to a slower pace.
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thanks :)
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lioside said:
two things i would suggest
a. ngumi, punch him and run away
b. ask him nicely
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haha thanks
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connieandbecky2 said:
He is trying to onyesha that he loves you. If wewe don't feel comforable with this ask him what he wants then tell him what u want. Its your choice to stay au go but if he really starts its over. Good luck !!!!!!!!!!
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wewe made an off maoni and alisema really. I could say the same Hun. If wewe tell someone that in the first few days of knowing them how smart is that "really"? It risks scaring them off for one thing, and if they are trying to onyesha that they really like you- aren't there other ways? Why would he upendo her if he doesn't know her? Yep, there is something wrong with that and something wrong with saying I upendo wewe without true depth, trust, au meaning-then it is just empty words devoid of what it really means. REALLY.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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u didn't get what I ment but it was ur answer it was confusing
connieandbecky2 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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RUN is not confusing I don't think. What was it wewe did not undertsand? If real stuff has happened to me as a result of not running first? au what confused you?
Sinna_Hime_chan posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
I'm sorry. I hate to say this. Don't listen to your friend. RUN.

(or for one thing wewe might end up like me with an ex bf who has - well who wants to kill themselves over wewe if wewe don't get back with them)

I would say that the rest of the stuff is okay, depending how comfortable wewe are and what wewe want & what wewe like -slowing down would have been fine BUT he already alisema "I upendo you" tooo fast sooo fast like what wewe said, that is a BAD-BAD sign, I know from experiences... and I ignored [I just smiled and did not say it back for a good while... still no good. No. Time & time again-NOT good].

wewe don't have to dislike him au be mean, and heck, if wewe wanna go out on a tarehe with him now & then... but he is a certain kinda guy (though I hate labels) clingy au just wanting in your pants/wanting something... au SOMETHING is wrong.

He may have strong feelings for wewe and be way crush'n but he doesn't know wewe enough to upendo wewe and even if it was upendo at first sight - a guy should know not to say that & just throw it out there... he could wait. No, something is wrong au wrong with him.

RUN
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I'm sorry. I hate to say this. Don't listen to your friend. [u]RUN[/u]. (or for one thing wewe might end up like me with an ex bf who has - well who wants to kill themselves over wewe if wewe don't get back with them) I would say that the rest of the stuff is okay, depending how comfortable wewe are and what wewe want & what wewe like -slowing down would have been fine BUT he already alisema "I upendo you" tooo fast sooo fast like what wewe said, that is a BAD-BAD sign, I know from experiences... and I ignored [I just smiled and did not say it back for a good while... still no good. No. Time & time again-NOT good]. wewe don't have to dislike him au be mean, and heck, if wewe wanna go out on a tarehe with him now & then... but he is a certain kinda guy (though I hate labels) clingy au just wanting in your pants/wanting something... au SOMETHING is wrong. He may have strong feelings for wewe and be way crush'n but he doesn't know wewe enough to upendo wewe and even if it was upendo at first sight - a guy should know not to say that & just throw it out there... he could wait. No, something is wrong au wrong with him. [b]RUN[/b]
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really
connieandbecky2 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Absolutely. What do wewe mean really?
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I just don't want people to make the same mistakes I have.
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