i have the exact same question! except for me i keep dreaming about someone who hates me and is a total jerk to me! and in my dream he always ends up as the perfect boyfriend for me! what are dreams supposed to mean?
i think, if this makes sense, that not focusing on what (or who) we don't want to brings zaidi thoughts too us. consequently, we dream of what/ who more.
they dream about the person they dont want to think about because: dreams are a way, a subconscious way of resolving problems.subconsciously as in, wewe cant Control it and wewe have no controll over it. so wewe are obviously disturbed kwa this person one way au another and when wewe dream, its your minds way of wanting to resolve the problem.Or, your minds way of resolving the problem. so resolving the problem in this case is the dream.
dreams ARE totally random. i kno i have dreams that dont fit into anything that has happened during the day... i remember the night i had my first dream abt this guy i kindaish like...it made me realize zaidi thing abt my "relationsjip" with him. i've realized he's zaidi a friend than a bf. i think dreams kind of teach u things, au help u decide upon hard things. the dream abt the person who u ont wanna think abt...i think it's your subconscious telling us that the person is someone to watch...that they are meant to be in our life for some reason bc they are invading our dreams....
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but what if your dreaming about someone who hates wewe and is a total jerk? in my dreams the gut ends up as the perfect boyfriend for me! what is my dream trying to tell me?!?
I think the person that they don't want to think about is the person that they can't get out of their mind no matter what they do. Sometimes it seems like you're not thinking of that person but wewe are acutally thinking about that person so much that that person enters your dreams.
Dreams are random. I've tried and tried to dream about the person I'm in upendo with---I think about them all siku long, I think about them as I go to sleep--and I NEVER dream about them. Don't worry about it, dreams don't mean anything. Trust your conscious mind, not your subconscious. :)
I think what it's trying to tell when wewe have those kinds of dreams, is people can very well be different than they appear if you'd open your mind a little. I had a dream about this guy I thought I'd NEVER like. He had bushy hair and tried to act cool all the time and was never really nice to me. He was helping me to get away from evil Mickey Mouse(I watch too much TV) and took me to his house to hide. It was kinda nice. I feel lyk I still don't like him but then, sometimes I just think a little... =D
Like attracts like. People are used to thinking about what they don't want, and consequently a chain reaction starts. One thought leads to about 10 zaidi about what wewe don't want.
People never control their own dreams. Sometimes people dream of the last thing they seen au thought hardly of. If wewe dream of something wewe don't want to think about, then you can't control it but maybe it's a sign of something.
Possiblably because your mind wants wewe to remember why wewe hate them so much. It also may be because wewe want them to behave differently towards wewe au others and your mind trys to imagine that. (The latter happens to me all of the time.)
I took a class about dreams. & it states, That dreams are feelings our souls hold for a specific moment, thought, au person. Some people such as me have completely bila mpangilio dreams. Such as "a person with a walrus head" au something. This could be your souls way of telling wewe about its feelings.
wewe can't control your dreams. Dreams usually are the way wewe see them when wewe sleep during events of the day. Som of em are pretty obvious, some of them just, don't make sense at all. But they relate to the events of the day.
Since it's your subconscious, in your head (in your case since wewe dream about the person wewe don't wanna think about) it usually goes on with the fact that u either wanna forgive, forget au just randomly think about and so on.
And this is also a way of moving on. Beleive it au not. It's just how your head works.
becoz they hate the person so much that even if they dont want to think abt them they keep thinking abt them and slowly it becomes an habbit to think abt them and then they think abt them so much that they start falling for them
