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How can wewe tell if a guy likes u??????????I mean I get all the if he smiles at u but I really like this guy but I dont know if he likes me back because I dont see him that often HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

 jeydonfan101 posted zaidi ya mwaka mmoja uliopita
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Jamie86 said:
Guys need zaidi time to acknowledge and understand their feelings. So when he has developed feelings for you, it doesn't mean that he is already ready to act upon those. In a way, that's a good thing, because the time he needs to adjust himself to the idea of liking someone, wewe can gradually get to know him better. Just be friendly, be yourself. When he's ready he'll give wewe something zaidi to work with. And because wewe got to know each other a little better it will be easier for him to onyesha wewe his feelings. But, just like you, he might be insecure wether wewe like him au not. So, give him a clear signal every now and then. Flirt a little with him. The fact that wewe dare to flirt with him shows that your quite confident, something guys like in a girl. And remember, there's nothing wrong au embarrassing at being in love, and being able to make yourself a little vulnerable kwa inaonyesha your feelings, makes wewe zaidi mature.

wewe know when a guy likes wewe when he tries to act all manly aroundyou (I think it's some remainder of our cave men period). He might get a little jealous when you're with another guy, he might talk to wewe zaidi (even though what he's saying doesn't make much sense) au he might talk less to you, because he's shy au uncertain. What also works great for you, is to make sure that his Marafiki like you. That will make it easier for him to confess his feelings for wewe and when wewe are dating wewe won't have trouble with his friends.

Hope this helps! Good luck!
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CullenProperty said:
Well... wewe never really know what a guy thinks until wewe lay your feelings out on the table. Do wewe like him? Cause if wewe do & wewe think that wewe could have something together, then wewe shoudl tell him how wewe feel. (I know that's what I had to do with my guy:). And be ready for anything that he can throw at you, just because he smiles at wewe and acts all nice and caring and sweet, does not mean that he'll only want to be friends. (Like with what happened with my guy.) wewe have to give yourself preperation to get rejected au accepted. If he likes you, then awesome possum!! But if he doesn't, just breath and think that there are other guys out there.

To answer your swali is to zaidi like ask wewe another one: How do wewe feel? And if wewe like him then go for it. If wewe don't, then just try to be nice to him and if he confesses that he likes you, then (like what my guy did), ask him if it's okay if wewe can just be friends.

I really hope I helped because I know what your going through; It's hard not to know how a guy feels for you, especially if wewe like him. If he's giving wewe mixed signals and then rejects you, just breath.
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thespikedturtle said:
Well, if wewe don't see him very often, it's really hard to tell. But if I liked a girl, I would get really shaky around her and mess up what I say, look for signs like that. If wewe look up and he's looking at you, but looks away, that's another sign.
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nawww cute.
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blue_eyez said:
just be urself!!! if he really luvs u he will make a move, if not then u will stay friends. But the one thing u should never do is ask him if he luvs u/ask him out ESPECIALLY if he is with his m8s,coz he will say no, and u will look really desparete, soz if its harsh but its happened 2 me and i don't want u 2 make the same mistake!so just flirt a little, and onyesha him what fun u r 2 be around!!! hope it helps! xxx
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 just be urself!!! if he really luvs u he will make a move, if not then u will stay friends. But the one thing u should never do is ask him if he luvs u/ask him out ESPECIALLY if he is with his m8s,coz he will say no, and u will look really desparete, soz if its harsh but its happened 2 me and i don't want u 2 make the same mistake!so just flirt a little, and onyesha him what fun u r 2 be around!!! hope it helps! xxx
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