1. Don't EVER tell us to CALM DOWN when we're angry. We hate that, and it often makes the situation worse.
2. Don't act like wewe know what you're talking about when wewe don't. It just pisses us off.
3. Don't treat us badly and with disrespect.
4. Don't give us commands like we're some kind of dog. We're your equal and should be treated as such.
5. Sure, you're the guy, so wewe can act like you're the stronger one... Whatever... But, don't EVER act like you're the head of the house. Relationships are to be an equal situation.
6. Don't yell at us when we do something wrong.
7. When wewe screw up, don't blame your fault on us.
8. Don't be rude to our side of the family. Ever.
9. Don't give yourself special privilges.
10. Don't hide anything from us.
11. Don't tell us lies.
12. Don't make stupid decisions.
13. When we act mean au hissy, don't get us even zaidi angry kwa uigizaji like a jerk. We're girls. wewe don't understand what we go through.
14. Don't be immature.
15. DON'T CHEAT ON US!!!
16. Don't ever say, "Go make me a sandwich!" au something along those lines... We're not your damn maids!!!
17. Don't tell us to clean up after your messes.
18. Don't be lazy.
19. Don't abuse us!!! We're not animals!!! We're your equal!!! I can't express that enough.
20. Don't ignore us.
21. Don't run away if we ever get into an argument. It's always better to sort things out.
22. Don't hold grudges if we try apologizing for something we did wrong.
23. Don't make us worry kwa staying out all night and not coming nyumbani until later.
24. Don't forget to compliment us when we put on a cute outfit and spice up our look. It pisses us off when we spend all that time getting ready to not get a compliment from you.
25. When wewe know we're right, don't act like wewe know you're right. When you're wrong, it's better to admit it.
26. Don't treat us badly in front of Marafiki just to onyesha your manly-hood. Again, we're your EQUAL.
27. Don't cop a joke on us and embarrass us. It's NOT funny! Especially when we're surrounded kwa strangers au friends.
28. If we ask a swali like, "Do I look fat in this dress?" Don't tell us a lie to save our feelings. Tell us the truth. But do it in a nice way. Not a mean way. This will onyesha us that you're honest.
29. Don't forget to tell us wewe upendo us!
30. Don't act like we're nothing.
31. Don't act like we're just somebody in your life to cook for wewe and provide wewe with sexual pleasure.
32. Don't make us do something we don't want to do.
33. Don't threaten us.
34. Don't put pressure on us.
35. Don't make us do everything to maintain a good relationship.
36. Don't cast rude maoni on us when we're crying.
37. Don't say that another girl is hot au beautiful in front of us. wewe wanna get slapped?!
38. Don't laugh at us when we do something wrong, screw something up, au embarrass ourselves.
39. Don't push us in pools!!! ESPECIALLY when we have make up on!!
40. Don't treat us unfairly.
I hope this gets through to wewe boys that need to hear this advice! =]
2. Don't act like wewe know what you're talking about when wewe don't. It just pisses us off.
3. Don't treat us badly and with disrespect.
4. Don't give us commands like we're some kind of dog. We're your equal and should be treated as such.
5. Sure, you're the guy, so wewe can act like you're the stronger one... Whatever... But, don't EVER act like you're the head of the house. Relationships are to be an equal situation.
6. Don't yell at us when we do something wrong.
7. When wewe screw up, don't blame your fault on us.
8. Don't be rude to our side of the family. Ever.
9. Don't give yourself special privilges.
10. Don't hide anything from us.
11. Don't tell us lies.
12. Don't make stupid decisions.
13. When we act mean au hissy, don't get us even zaidi angry kwa uigizaji like a jerk. We're girls. wewe don't understand what we go through.
14. Don't be immature.
15. DON'T CHEAT ON US!!!
16. Don't ever say, "Go make me a sandwich!" au something along those lines... We're not your damn maids!!!
17. Don't tell us to clean up after your messes.
18. Don't be lazy.
19. Don't abuse us!!! We're not animals!!! We're your equal!!! I can't express that enough.
20. Don't ignore us.
21. Don't run away if we ever get into an argument. It's always better to sort things out.
22. Don't hold grudges if we try apologizing for something we did wrong.
23. Don't make us worry kwa staying out all night and not coming nyumbani until later.
24. Don't forget to compliment us when we put on a cute outfit and spice up our look. It pisses us off when we spend all that time getting ready to not get a compliment from you.
25. When wewe know we're right, don't act like wewe know you're right. When you're wrong, it's better to admit it.
26. Don't treat us badly in front of Marafiki just to onyesha your manly-hood. Again, we're your EQUAL.
27. Don't cop a joke on us and embarrass us. It's NOT funny! Especially when we're surrounded kwa strangers au friends.
28. If we ask a swali like, "Do I look fat in this dress?" Don't tell us a lie to save our feelings. Tell us the truth. But do it in a nice way. Not a mean way. This will onyesha us that you're honest.
29. Don't forget to tell us wewe upendo us!
30. Don't act like we're nothing.
31. Don't act like we're just somebody in your life to cook for wewe and provide wewe with sexual pleasure.
32. Don't make us do something we don't want to do.
33. Don't threaten us.
34. Don't put pressure on us.
35. Don't make us do everything to maintain a good relationship.
36. Don't cast rude maoni on us when we're crying.
37. Don't say that another girl is hot au beautiful in front of us. wewe wanna get slapped?!
38. Don't laugh at us when we do something wrong, screw something up, au embarrass ourselves.
39. Don't push us in pools!!! ESPECIALLY when we have make up on!!
40. Don't treat us unfairly.
I hope this gets through to wewe boys that need to hear this advice! =]
