Historically, sweat has been an active ingredient in perfume and upendo potions.g
In Bali, men believed a woman would fall in upendo if her suitor fed her a certain kind of leaf incised with the image of a god who sported a very large penis.e
The Mexican chief Montezuma considered chokoleti a “love drug” and drank 50 cups of chokoleti a siku before visiting his harem of 600 women.a
Scientists suggest that most people will fall in upendo approximately seven times before marriage.h
Some individuals who claim never to have felt romantic upendo suffer from hypopituitarism, a rare disease that doesn’t allow a person to feel the rapture of love.e
Getting dumped often leads to “frustration attraction,” which causes an individual to upendo the one who dumped him au her even more.f
upendo is derived from the Sanskrit lubh, which means desire
The term “love” is from the Sanskrit lubhyati, meaning “desire.”i
“Love” in the sense of “no score” in tennis dates to 1792 and means “playing for love” or, in other words, playing for nothing.i Other scholars claim that "love" as a tennis score is a corruption of the French word for egg, "L'oeuf," because of the egg's resemblance to a zero.m
Engagement rings are often worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because the ancient Greeks maintained that that finger contains the vena amoris, au the “vein of love,” that runs straight to the heart. The first recorded wedding rings appear in ancient Egypt, with the mduara, duara representing eternity as well as powerful sun and moon deities.l
Seminal fluid can potentially contribute to romantic love. Reports suggest that the liquid that surrounds the sperm contains dopamine (“the pleasure chemical”) and norepinephrine as well as tyrosine, an amino acid the brain needs to manufacture dopamine.g
The enduring symbol of love, Cupid (or Eros) is alisema to have come from Chaos (“The Yawning Void”) and represents the primitive forces of upendo and desire.n
The word “lesbian” is derived from the Greek island Lesbos, where the poetess Sappho composed her famous poems to her famous female lovers.l
Roses are a traditional symbol of upendo and, depending on their color, can suggest different nuances of love.n For example, red roses indicate passion and true love. Light pink suggests desire, passion, and energy; dark pink suggests gratitude. Yellow roses can mean friendship au jealousy. A lavender au thornless rose can mean upendo at first sight. White roses mean virtue au devotion. Some roses even combine colors to created zaidi complicated meanings.k
European males subconsciously seek out women whose waist circumference is about 70%t of their hips. Beauty ikoni such as Audrey Hepburn, Venus de Milo, and even Twiggy had a waist ratio of exactly 70%.e
When a person falls in love, the ventral tegmental area in the brain floods the caudate nucleus with dopamine. The caudate then signals for zaidi dopamine; the zaidi dopamine, the higher a person feels. The same system becomes activated when someone takes cocaine.g
When someone looks at a new love, the neural circuits that are usually associated with social judgment are suppressed.e
The apple has historically been the ultimate symbol of upendo and sexual desire
Since ancient Greece, the apple has been a symbol of love. The Celts believed that the apple represented upendo because it lasted so long after being picked.n
A study of college students who had just been rejected kwa their sweethearts showed they had strong activity in the brain associated with the insular cortex, the part of the brain that experiences physical pain.e
Antidepressants may compromise romantic upendo because they enhance serotonin levels. Higher serotonin levels blunt emotions and inhibit obsessive thoughts about the lover, both crucial components of love.g
A four-leaf clover is often considered good luck, but it is also part of an Irish upendo ritual. In some parts of Ireland, if a woman eats a four-leaf clover while thinking about a man, supposedly he will fall in upendo with her.n
Some psychologists argue that we fall in upendo with someone who is similar to the parent with whom we have unresolved childhood issues, unaware we are seeking to resolve this childhood relationship in adulthood.f
Studies onyesha that if a man meets a woman in a dangerous situation (and vice versa), such as on a trembling bridge, he is zaidi likely to fall in upendo with her than if he met her in a zaidi mundane setting, such as in an office.g
Mystery au “the chase” is often a critical element in romantic love. Sometimes called the “Romeo and Juliet effect,” a situation with challenges au obstructions is likely to intensify one’s passion for a loved one.g
Scientists suggest that the advent of cooking led to healthier chakula which, in turn, led to bigger brains and an increased capacity to woo potential lovers with new forms of linguistic and artistic seductive flairs.g
Men and women are subconsciously attracted to those with a symmetrical face
Men and women with highly symmetrical faces tend to have zaidi lovers to choose from. Additionally, men with symmetrical faces begin to have sex four years earlier, have zaidi sex, and have zaidi affairs than their lopsided peers. Women also tend to have zaidi orgasms with symmetrical men.c
Timing significantly influences love. Individuals are zaidi likely to fall in upendo if they are looking for adventure, craving to leave home, lonely, displaced in a foreign country, passing into a new stage of life, au financially and psychologically ready to share themselves au start a family.e
Women around the world are zaidi likely to fall in upendo with partners with ambition, education, wealth, respect, status, a sense of humor, and who are taller than they are. Women also prefer distinctive cheekbones and a strong jawbone, which are linked to testosterone levels. During ovulation, women become even zaidi interested in men with signs of testosterone.g
Men in upendo onyesha zaidi activity in the visual part of the brain, while women in upendo onyesha zaidi activity in the part of the brain that governs memory. Scientists speculate that men have to size up a woman visually to see if she can kubeba babies, while women have to remember aspects of man’s behavior to determine if he would be an adequate provider.d
It is estimated that 40–70% of female homicides are committed kwa their lovers and spouses.b
In one of many kura za maoni on the subject, 60% of married American men say they’ve been unfaithful, compared to 40% of American women.b
The maple leaf is a symbol of upendo in China and Japan—and in North America, it was often engraved on beds of early settlers to promote peaceful sleep and pleasure.n
Plato asserts in his Symposium that initially all humans were whole, hermaphroditic beings with four hands, four legs, two identical faces on one head/neck, four ears, and both sets of genitals. When these beautiful, strong beings tried to overthrow the gods, Zeus mgawanyiko, baidisha them into two—man and woman— and created the innate desire of human beings for one another to feel whole again.a
Scientists suggest that merely staring into another person’s eyes is a strong precursor to love. In an experiment, strangers of the opposite sex were put in a room together for 90 dakika where they talked about intimate details and then stared into each other’s eyes without talking. Many felt a deep attraction for each other, and two married each other six months later.e
The urge to fall in upendo is, like sex and hunger, a primitive, biological drive.f
upendo and lust activate different areas of the brain
Brains in upendo and brains in lust are not identical. Erotic picha activate the hypothalamus (which controls hunger and thirst) and the amygada (arousal) areas of the brain. upendo activates areas of the brain with a high concentration of receptors for dopamine (associated with euphoria, craving, and addiction) and its relative, norepinephrine.d
Many cultures use knots as symbols of an eternal upendo that has neither a beginning nor an end. Young Muslim women would send upendo messages to their lovers using intricate knots.n
The longer and zaidi deliberate a courtship, the better the prospects for a long marriage. People who have intense, Hollywood-type romances at the beginning are zaidi likely to divorce.h
New research suggests that passionate upendo does not always decline over time. In addition to exhibiting intense activity in the ventral tegmental area of the brain similar to those in the early stages of love, brain scans also onyesha activity in the ventral pallidum, a region associated with feelings of long-term attachment, and in the raphe nucleus, which is responsible for higher serotonin levels, which lead to calmness and less obsession.d
upendo is not necessarily a guarantee that a marriage will last. Other factors include a couple’s age (a husband who is nine au zaidi years older than his wife au who marries before the age of 24 is zaidi likely to divorce), those who are in their sekunde au third marriage, those who had a child before marriage, and finances. Factors not pertinent to success of marriage are the number of children au their ages, the wife’s employment status, and the number of years a wife has been employed.j
Romantic upendo lasts just over a year, perhaps because the brain cannot eternally maintain a revved-up state of romantic bliss. As romantic upendo wanes, attachment love, a zaidi stable love, sets in. To keep the passion alive, experts suggest doing satisfying and exciting activities as a couple.g
High levels of testosterone may suppress oxytocin and vasopressin (chemicals associated with attachment love), which may explain why men with higher testosterone levels tend to marry less often, be zaidi abusive in their marriage, and divorce more. When a man holds a baby, his testosterone goes down, perhaps as a result of increased oxytocin and vasopressin.c
Men and women are biologically wired to express upendo in different ways
Women often feel loved when talking face to face with their partner; men, on the other hand, often feel emotionally close when they work, play, au talk side kwa side.g
To remain in upendo for a lifetime, therapists advise couples to listen actively to your partner, ask questions, give answers, appreciate, stay attractive, grow intellectually, include your partner, give him/her privacy, be honest and trustworthy, tell your mate what wewe need, accept his/her shortcomings, give respect, never threaten to leave, say “no” to adultery, don’t assume the relationship will last forever, and cultivate variety.j
Men are zaidi likely than women to be zaidi flexible in their romantic choices when they are looking for short-term relationship—though when they want a long-term mate, they become pickier about basic virtues.e
Couples around the world who divorce tend to divorce around their fourth mwaka of marriage. After four years, marriages generally stabilize until around eight years.g
Being in upendo creates high levels of dopamine and norepinephrine. The despair associated with unrequited upendo is associated with plummeting levels of dopamine. To increase dopamine, rejected lovers should exercise. Sunlight is another mood lifter, and smiling also activates nerve pathways that can give feelings of pleasure.g
One of the greatest predictors of upendo is proximity. Physical closeness leads to increased emotion, and it is not unusual to hear stories of bosses falling in upendo with their secretaries. On the other hand, scientists now think that at a critical time in childhood (sometime between ages 4–6), boys and girls who live in close proximity lose their ability to fall in upendo with each other, perhaps preventing the destructive act of mixing one’s DNA with close kin.g
Kama Sutra (love + thread, rule) is an ancient text on upendo in Sanskrit literature written kwa Mallanaga Vatsyayana around the sekunde century A.D. Kama is the Hindu god of upendo and also means desire. Sutra is a manual au a guide.g
The herbs associated with Venus (marjoram, meadowsweet, mint, thyme, and violet) are alisema to be upendo inducing when mixed with those herbs sacred to Mars (basil and broom). Spreading them on the floor au scenting the bridal sheets with them supposedly evokes feelings of love.n
The moyo is a common symbol of love. Ancient alchemists used the symbol of the moyo for incantations of love. The moyo can represent an inverted pembetatu in which upendo is poured au carried. In Buddhism, the pembetatu is an invocation of upendo energy associated with the divine. The moyo can also represent the wings of a dove, which was sacrificed in ancient Israel as a gesture of upendo and which also served as a symbol of Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love.n
On average, men around the world marry women who are three years younger than themselves. In the United States, men who remarry usually choose a wife five years younger; if they wed a third time, they often marry someone eight years younger than themselves.g
Studies onyesha that the risk of a “secret love” being revealed heightens romantic feelings for the partners, thanks to increased levels of phenylethylamine (PEA).
In Bali, men believed a woman would fall in upendo if her suitor fed her a certain kind of leaf incised with the image of a god who sported a very large penis.e
The Mexican chief Montezuma considered chokoleti a “love drug” and drank 50 cups of chokoleti a siku before visiting his harem of 600 women.a
Scientists suggest that most people will fall in upendo approximately seven times before marriage.h
Some individuals who claim never to have felt romantic upendo suffer from hypopituitarism, a rare disease that doesn’t allow a person to feel the rapture of love.e
Getting dumped often leads to “frustration attraction,” which causes an individual to upendo the one who dumped him au her even more.f
upendo is derived from the Sanskrit lubh, which means desire
The term “love” is from the Sanskrit lubhyati, meaning “desire.”i
“Love” in the sense of “no score” in tennis dates to 1792 and means “playing for love” or, in other words, playing for nothing.i Other scholars claim that "love" as a tennis score is a corruption of the French word for egg, "L'oeuf," because of the egg's resemblance to a zero.m
Engagement rings are often worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because the ancient Greeks maintained that that finger contains the vena amoris, au the “vein of love,” that runs straight to the heart. The first recorded wedding rings appear in ancient Egypt, with the mduara, duara representing eternity as well as powerful sun and moon deities.l
Seminal fluid can potentially contribute to romantic love. Reports suggest that the liquid that surrounds the sperm contains dopamine (“the pleasure chemical”) and norepinephrine as well as tyrosine, an amino acid the brain needs to manufacture dopamine.g
The enduring symbol of love, Cupid (or Eros) is alisema to have come from Chaos (“The Yawning Void”) and represents the primitive forces of upendo and desire.n
The word “lesbian” is derived from the Greek island Lesbos, where the poetess Sappho composed her famous poems to her famous female lovers.l
Roses are a traditional symbol of upendo and, depending on their color, can suggest different nuances of love.n For example, red roses indicate passion and true love. Light pink suggests desire, passion, and energy; dark pink suggests gratitude. Yellow roses can mean friendship au jealousy. A lavender au thornless rose can mean upendo at first sight. White roses mean virtue au devotion. Some roses even combine colors to created zaidi complicated meanings.k
European males subconsciously seek out women whose waist circumference is about 70%t of their hips. Beauty ikoni such as Audrey Hepburn, Venus de Milo, and even Twiggy had a waist ratio of exactly 70%.e
When a person falls in love, the ventral tegmental area in the brain floods the caudate nucleus with dopamine. The caudate then signals for zaidi dopamine; the zaidi dopamine, the higher a person feels. The same system becomes activated when someone takes cocaine.g
When someone looks at a new love, the neural circuits that are usually associated with social judgment are suppressed.e
The apple has historically been the ultimate symbol of upendo and sexual desire
Since ancient Greece, the apple has been a symbol of love. The Celts believed that the apple represented upendo because it lasted so long after being picked.n
A study of college students who had just been rejected kwa their sweethearts showed they had strong activity in the brain associated with the insular cortex, the part of the brain that experiences physical pain.e
Antidepressants may compromise romantic upendo because they enhance serotonin levels. Higher serotonin levels blunt emotions and inhibit obsessive thoughts about the lover, both crucial components of love.g
A four-leaf clover is often considered good luck, but it is also part of an Irish upendo ritual. In some parts of Ireland, if a woman eats a four-leaf clover while thinking about a man, supposedly he will fall in upendo with her.n
Some psychologists argue that we fall in upendo with someone who is similar to the parent with whom we have unresolved childhood issues, unaware we are seeking to resolve this childhood relationship in adulthood.f
Studies onyesha that if a man meets a woman in a dangerous situation (and vice versa), such as on a trembling bridge, he is zaidi likely to fall in upendo with her than if he met her in a zaidi mundane setting, such as in an office.g
Mystery au “the chase” is often a critical element in romantic love. Sometimes called the “Romeo and Juliet effect,” a situation with challenges au obstructions is likely to intensify one’s passion for a loved one.g
Scientists suggest that the advent of cooking led to healthier chakula which, in turn, led to bigger brains and an increased capacity to woo potential lovers with new forms of linguistic and artistic seductive flairs.g
Men and women are subconsciously attracted to those with a symmetrical face
Men and women with highly symmetrical faces tend to have zaidi lovers to choose from. Additionally, men with symmetrical faces begin to have sex four years earlier, have zaidi sex, and have zaidi affairs than their lopsided peers. Women also tend to have zaidi orgasms with symmetrical men.c
Timing significantly influences love. Individuals are zaidi likely to fall in upendo if they are looking for adventure, craving to leave home, lonely, displaced in a foreign country, passing into a new stage of life, au financially and psychologically ready to share themselves au start a family.e
Women around the world are zaidi likely to fall in upendo with partners with ambition, education, wealth, respect, status, a sense of humor, and who are taller than they are. Women also prefer distinctive cheekbones and a strong jawbone, which are linked to testosterone levels. During ovulation, women become even zaidi interested in men with signs of testosterone.g
Men in upendo onyesha zaidi activity in the visual part of the brain, while women in upendo onyesha zaidi activity in the part of the brain that governs memory. Scientists speculate that men have to size up a woman visually to see if she can kubeba babies, while women have to remember aspects of man’s behavior to determine if he would be an adequate provider.d
It is estimated that 40–70% of female homicides are committed kwa their lovers and spouses.b
In one of many kura za maoni on the subject, 60% of married American men say they’ve been unfaithful, compared to 40% of American women.b
The maple leaf is a symbol of upendo in China and Japan—and in North America, it was often engraved on beds of early settlers to promote peaceful sleep and pleasure.n
Plato asserts in his Symposium that initially all humans were whole, hermaphroditic beings with four hands, four legs, two identical faces on one head/neck, four ears, and both sets of genitals. When these beautiful, strong beings tried to overthrow the gods, Zeus mgawanyiko, baidisha them into two—man and woman— and created the innate desire of human beings for one another to feel whole again.a
Scientists suggest that merely staring into another person’s eyes is a strong precursor to love. In an experiment, strangers of the opposite sex were put in a room together for 90 dakika where they talked about intimate details and then stared into each other’s eyes without talking. Many felt a deep attraction for each other, and two married each other six months later.e
The urge to fall in upendo is, like sex and hunger, a primitive, biological drive.f
upendo and lust activate different areas of the brain
Brains in upendo and brains in lust are not identical. Erotic picha activate the hypothalamus (which controls hunger and thirst) and the amygada (arousal) areas of the brain. upendo activates areas of the brain with a high concentration of receptors for dopamine (associated with euphoria, craving, and addiction) and its relative, norepinephrine.d
Many cultures use knots as symbols of an eternal upendo that has neither a beginning nor an end. Young Muslim women would send upendo messages to their lovers using intricate knots.n
The longer and zaidi deliberate a courtship, the better the prospects for a long marriage. People who have intense, Hollywood-type romances at the beginning are zaidi likely to divorce.h
New research suggests that passionate upendo does not always decline over time. In addition to exhibiting intense activity in the ventral tegmental area of the brain similar to those in the early stages of love, brain scans also onyesha activity in the ventral pallidum, a region associated with feelings of long-term attachment, and in the raphe nucleus, which is responsible for higher serotonin levels, which lead to calmness and less obsession.d
upendo is not necessarily a guarantee that a marriage will last. Other factors include a couple’s age (a husband who is nine au zaidi years older than his wife au who marries before the age of 24 is zaidi likely to divorce), those who are in their sekunde au third marriage, those who had a child before marriage, and finances. Factors not pertinent to success of marriage are the number of children au their ages, the wife’s employment status, and the number of years a wife has been employed.j
Romantic upendo lasts just over a year, perhaps because the brain cannot eternally maintain a revved-up state of romantic bliss. As romantic upendo wanes, attachment love, a zaidi stable love, sets in. To keep the passion alive, experts suggest doing satisfying and exciting activities as a couple.g
High levels of testosterone may suppress oxytocin and vasopressin (chemicals associated with attachment love), which may explain why men with higher testosterone levels tend to marry less often, be zaidi abusive in their marriage, and divorce more. When a man holds a baby, his testosterone goes down, perhaps as a result of increased oxytocin and vasopressin.c
Men and women are biologically wired to express upendo in different ways
Women often feel loved when talking face to face with their partner; men, on the other hand, often feel emotionally close when they work, play, au talk side kwa side.g
To remain in upendo for a lifetime, therapists advise couples to listen actively to your partner, ask questions, give answers, appreciate, stay attractive, grow intellectually, include your partner, give him/her privacy, be honest and trustworthy, tell your mate what wewe need, accept his/her shortcomings, give respect, never threaten to leave, say “no” to adultery, don’t assume the relationship will last forever, and cultivate variety.j
Men are zaidi likely than women to be zaidi flexible in their romantic choices when they are looking for short-term relationship—though when they want a long-term mate, they become pickier about basic virtues.e
Couples around the world who divorce tend to divorce around their fourth mwaka of marriage. After four years, marriages generally stabilize until around eight years.g
Being in upendo creates high levels of dopamine and norepinephrine. The despair associated with unrequited upendo is associated with plummeting levels of dopamine. To increase dopamine, rejected lovers should exercise. Sunlight is another mood lifter, and smiling also activates nerve pathways that can give feelings of pleasure.g
One of the greatest predictors of upendo is proximity. Physical closeness leads to increased emotion, and it is not unusual to hear stories of bosses falling in upendo with their secretaries. On the other hand, scientists now think that at a critical time in childhood (sometime between ages 4–6), boys and girls who live in close proximity lose their ability to fall in upendo with each other, perhaps preventing the destructive act of mixing one’s DNA with close kin.g
Kama Sutra (love + thread, rule) is an ancient text on upendo in Sanskrit literature written kwa Mallanaga Vatsyayana around the sekunde century A.D. Kama is the Hindu god of upendo and also means desire. Sutra is a manual au a guide.g
The herbs associated with Venus (marjoram, meadowsweet, mint, thyme, and violet) are alisema to be upendo inducing when mixed with those herbs sacred to Mars (basil and broom). Spreading them on the floor au scenting the bridal sheets with them supposedly evokes feelings of love.n
The moyo is a common symbol of love. Ancient alchemists used the symbol of the moyo for incantations of love. The moyo can represent an inverted pembetatu in which upendo is poured au carried. In Buddhism, the pembetatu is an invocation of upendo energy associated with the divine. The moyo can also represent the wings of a dove, which was sacrificed in ancient Israel as a gesture of upendo and which also served as a symbol of Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love.n
On average, men around the world marry women who are three years younger than themselves. In the United States, men who remarry usually choose a wife five years younger; if they wed a third time, they often marry someone eight years younger than themselves.g
Studies onyesha that the risk of a “secret love” being revealed heightens romantic feelings for the partners, thanks to increased levels of phenylethylamine (PEA).
