Okay so I was browsing the net and I found this lovely piece of work, that was published just two months ago. link
Apparently this is a 'student run' new site. So much for the plagiarism policy. Like at least give an exact link--as your site automatically generates for anyone who copies and pastes your work. But don't worry I already put that up juu myself, out of respect. Anyhow I find it very funny how professionally set up this site is and yet they're utilizing my work without my permission and without even linking me to it. It's one thing to post my work (with credits) in appreciation of it behind my back and another to critique it behind my back. I'm not saying not to disagree with me at all, because really, I don't mind. What I am saying is, at least have the decency to link me to the critique so I have a chance to defend myself. That's my main issue with this article. The lack of professionalism is killing me and this site claims to be the site of a newspaper. "The Record and its staff encourage a respectful, engaging and informative conversation." Yeah, okay, sure lol. Where's the respect? With that in mind I am going to link this to the site so they can properly give feedback about their work being utilized. I mean I suppose I'm somewhat flattered that, that silly makala drew enough attention to get a whole response makala on another site, but still...it's the way the response was done behind my back that I'm not flattered by.
So what baffles me the most is that (what seems to be) a rather professional newspaper took an makala of mine that wasn't even supposed to be professional in the slightest and utilized it. Legit, that makala of mine was only there to get my opinion out there and encourage/welcome people into any fandom. To let people know that it's okay to not know everything about a certain medium. I don't get why people have to take a positive like that and try to push a negative.
With all of this in mind Imma type this makala just how I typed the other one; without a degree of professional language because that's not what the first one was. Because again, most all of my opinion makala are recreational things, things I type just because I want something to do.
The first point I'd like to address is the following "Sure, I might like something a lot, but I’m not going to consider myself a shabiki right away. Why? Because I feel like I don’t know enough about what I’m trying to become a shabiki of." Alright, that's cool. wewe do you, but don't try to tell others how to feel au make them feel unwelcome/unequal in the fandom. Just because wewe don't feel comfortable considering yourself a shabiki right away, doesn't mean other people can't. In my opinion it's perfectly fine to call yourself a shabiki as soon as wewe start to enjoy something because that's what being a shabiki is.
kwa definition (taken from here; link)) "is a person who is enthusiastically devoted to something au somebody, such as a band, a sports team, a genre, a book, a movie au an entertainer. As long a person genuinely enjoys something and shows some enthusiasm, kwa definition they are a fan. Take out the enthusiasm and you're still a fan, you're just a casual fan. Someone who watches and enjoys the subject but isn't super crazy about it. And a causal shabiki is still a real/true fan.
So yes, if wewe don't feel right calling yourself a shabiki (and I apply this to any reader not just the person who this makala is a response to) then wewe don't have to. But there are some people who feel comfortable doing so and it's perfectly valid to do so. Because even if wewe don't know a lot about the thing wewe just started to like, wewe can still like and enjoy it. And that is a fan.
The other point that was bought up was the following; "Some “fans,”consider themselves bandwagoners. These individuals openly admit they are mashabiki of something because it is what’s maarufu at the time." kwa all means, this is a fair point. But these are not the people my makala was addressing. For one, these people openly admitted they weren't true fans. My makala aimed to kuinua, kunyanyua people who genuinely upendo the subject but were told they couldn't be a shabiki because of xyz. Bandwagoners aren't real mashabiki they're bandwagoners. And they admit it.
Which leads to my inayofuata point; I'm under the impression that my makala wasn't even read fully. Because the point was terribly missed. I read through all of the "Being a shabiki Isn't Easy" makala and not once was it mentioned that people were getting told they weren't real mashabiki for opinions regarding the medium they love. The entire point of my makala was to dispute claims like "you're not a real shabiki because wewe like the antagonists better than the protagonists." I am a huge shabiki of Winx Club; I've been a shabiki for well over ten years now. I know my shit. And yet someone got off on calling me a 'fake fan' because I preferred one dub over the other. This is what my makala was, in a sense, calling out. And the response makala didn't address this at all. I feel as though they read my “Step one: enjoy/love/like the show, book, movie, and/or band. Good job, that’s it, you’re a true fan.” And just stopped. So kwa all means the makala in response to mine isn't even a fair assessment of my original content. Considering how much of it was ignored. Considering the very core of it was ignored.
So the inayofuata thing bought up is the following; "You know, the people that when wewe onyesha them a cool new band, they don’t think much about them, but as soon as the band starts getting airtime on the radio, they claim to know every word to every song?" Isn't this a form of bandwagoning though? Since the band is getting air time they jump on?
wewe know what, Imma defend these people. To be honest it did annoy me when Gangnam Style started playing and suddenly everyone was a Kpop fan. But
Everyone needs to start somewhere. And I think the above is a start of some sort. No, they shouldn't claim to know every line to every song right off the bat. But it's completely fair for the person to say they are a shabiki of and like what they did hear. And from there the rest of the knowledge comes naturally. No one has to put in tedious research, why would they? Because eventually (especially with shows) the viewer starts to get used to the onyesha and slowly he/she finds him/herself realizing that he/she can orodha off every member of the cast and who they play! Way back in 2011 I dived into the Once fandom; it was really disorienting because not only did I have to keep track of all the characters but I had to keep track of which fairy tail counterpart belonged to who. And I came into the fandom late. Luckily everyone was supportive and instead of saying I wasn't a real shabiki they helped remind me of who was who. Soon enough--without even realizing it--I not only had the counterpart thing down, but also which cast member played who down. And I didn't do a speck of research, I just listened to my fellow mashabiki talk. I followed their conversations, and it came naturally.
So kwa all means, it really is that easy!
That said, onto the inayofuata point; "There has to be something zaidi to it than just enjoyment."
I suppose this is just a matter of opinion. Because I strongly disagree. Being a shabiki is all about enjoying something. In fact I'm inclined to point wewe back to the very definition of the word fan. It says nothing about research/knowledge and everything about enjoyment.
"In order to be a shabiki of something, wewe need to have done your homework on it." No. No, no, no. Being a shabiki should not require homework! That's what school is for. Sure if it's something wewe enjoy it shouldn't be a hassle. kwa all means when I got into Avatar I wanted to know everything I could about my inayopendelewa character, Azula. But what about the people who just want to watch the show? That's it, they like/love the onyesha but they really don't want to part-take in the fandom au anything. Are wewe saying that these people don't actually like the show? That they're not fans?
I'd like to argue that (again especially in the case of shows & books) the information is all and research wewe need lies in the content of the show/book. If it doesn't than the mwandishi isn't doing his/her job.
And just how much do wewe need to know? If knowledge is what defines what it takes to be a shabiki then who gets to set that bar? Some people would say that to be a real shabiki wewe have to know the names of all the characters, the inayofuata guy will step it up and demand that wewe know all of the characters and the actors who play them. The person will say that wewe have to know all of that and the names of all the episodes. So whose standard of how much knowledge wewe need to be a shabiki are we going by? Because that, my friends, is subjective too. And there's a simple solution to this problem; let the individual him au herself decide when he au she is a shabiki of something. Gauge whether au not someone is a shabiki of something kwa how much they like the show/book/band/etc.
"But if wewe want to be considered a fan, wewe should be reading, watching, attending, listening, and/or participating in whatever your interest is as much as possible." Now this is something I can agree with. Because that's all it takes; watching thew show, listening to the music, au whatever. Just making time for watching/listening to/etc. the subject shows that you're a fan. Where I differ is that I don't think that there is a such thing as a 'lazy, lackluster' fan, just a casual fan. And a casual shabiki is still a real fan.
Long story short, I just don't understand why people are so keen on making watching shows, kusoma books, listening to music, and generally enjoying something such a chore. It really doesn't have to be. Isn't the point of shows/books/music to give people a release. To give people an escape. A way to relax. And it's pretty hard to relax and get invested in a onyesha when people are telling you, wewe have to hardcore know everything about it. au when people are playing bouncer at the door of the fanclubs. Just welcome people in with open arms and onyesha them the works of the fandom! Like Jesus Christ.
Apparently this is a 'student run' new site. So much for the plagiarism policy. Like at least give an exact link--as your site automatically generates for anyone who copies and pastes your work. But don't worry I already put that up juu myself, out of respect. Anyhow I find it very funny how professionally set up this site is and yet they're utilizing my work without my permission and without even linking me to it. It's one thing to post my work (with credits) in appreciation of it behind my back and another to critique it behind my back. I'm not saying not to disagree with me at all, because really, I don't mind. What I am saying is, at least have the decency to link me to the critique so I have a chance to defend myself. That's my main issue with this article. The lack of professionalism is killing me and this site claims to be the site of a newspaper. "The Record and its staff encourage a respectful, engaging and informative conversation." Yeah, okay, sure lol. Where's the respect? With that in mind I am going to link this to the site so they can properly give feedback about their work being utilized. I mean I suppose I'm somewhat flattered that, that silly makala drew enough attention to get a whole response makala on another site, but still...it's the way the response was done behind my back that I'm not flattered by.
So what baffles me the most is that (what seems to be) a rather professional newspaper took an makala of mine that wasn't even supposed to be professional in the slightest and utilized it. Legit, that makala of mine was only there to get my opinion out there and encourage/welcome people into any fandom. To let people know that it's okay to not know everything about a certain medium. I don't get why people have to take a positive like that and try to push a negative.
With all of this in mind Imma type this makala just how I typed the other one; without a degree of professional language because that's not what the first one was. Because again, most all of my opinion makala are recreational things, things I type just because I want something to do.
The first point I'd like to address is the following "Sure, I might like something a lot, but I’m not going to consider myself a shabiki right away. Why? Because I feel like I don’t know enough about what I’m trying to become a shabiki of." Alright, that's cool. wewe do you, but don't try to tell others how to feel au make them feel unwelcome/unequal in the fandom. Just because wewe don't feel comfortable considering yourself a shabiki right away, doesn't mean other people can't. In my opinion it's perfectly fine to call yourself a shabiki as soon as wewe start to enjoy something because that's what being a shabiki is.
kwa definition (taken from here; link)) "is a person who is enthusiastically devoted to something au somebody, such as a band, a sports team, a genre, a book, a movie au an entertainer. As long a person genuinely enjoys something and shows some enthusiasm, kwa definition they are a fan. Take out the enthusiasm and you're still a fan, you're just a casual fan. Someone who watches and enjoys the subject but isn't super crazy about it. And a causal shabiki is still a real/true fan.
So yes, if wewe don't feel right calling yourself a shabiki (and I apply this to any reader not just the person who this makala is a response to) then wewe don't have to. But there are some people who feel comfortable doing so and it's perfectly valid to do so. Because even if wewe don't know a lot about the thing wewe just started to like, wewe can still like and enjoy it. And that is a fan.
The other point that was bought up was the following; "Some “fans,”consider themselves bandwagoners. These individuals openly admit they are mashabiki of something because it is what’s maarufu at the time." kwa all means, this is a fair point. But these are not the people my makala was addressing. For one, these people openly admitted they weren't true fans. My makala aimed to kuinua, kunyanyua people who genuinely upendo the subject but were told they couldn't be a shabiki because of xyz. Bandwagoners aren't real mashabiki they're bandwagoners. And they admit it.
Which leads to my inayofuata point; I'm under the impression that my makala wasn't even read fully. Because the point was terribly missed. I read through all of the "Being a shabiki Isn't Easy" makala and not once was it mentioned that people were getting told they weren't real mashabiki for opinions regarding the medium they love. The entire point of my makala was to dispute claims like "you're not a real shabiki because wewe like the antagonists better than the protagonists." I am a huge shabiki of Winx Club; I've been a shabiki for well over ten years now. I know my shit. And yet someone got off on calling me a 'fake fan' because I preferred one dub over the other. This is what my makala was, in a sense, calling out. And the response makala didn't address this at all. I feel as though they read my “Step one: enjoy/love/like the show, book, movie, and/or band. Good job, that’s it, you’re a true fan.” And just stopped. So kwa all means the makala in response to mine isn't even a fair assessment of my original content. Considering how much of it was ignored. Considering the very core of it was ignored.
So the inayofuata thing bought up is the following; "You know, the people that when wewe onyesha them a cool new band, they don’t think much about them, but as soon as the band starts getting airtime on the radio, they claim to know every word to every song?" Isn't this a form of bandwagoning though? Since the band is getting air time they jump on?
wewe know what, Imma defend these people. To be honest it did annoy me when Gangnam Style started playing and suddenly everyone was a Kpop fan. But
Everyone needs to start somewhere. And I think the above is a start of some sort. No, they shouldn't claim to know every line to every song right off the bat. But it's completely fair for the person to say they are a shabiki of and like what they did hear. And from there the rest of the knowledge comes naturally. No one has to put in tedious research, why would they? Because eventually (especially with shows) the viewer starts to get used to the onyesha and slowly he/she finds him/herself realizing that he/she can orodha off every member of the cast and who they play! Way back in 2011 I dived into the Once fandom; it was really disorienting because not only did I have to keep track of all the characters but I had to keep track of which fairy tail counterpart belonged to who. And I came into the fandom late. Luckily everyone was supportive and instead of saying I wasn't a real shabiki they helped remind me of who was who. Soon enough--without even realizing it--I not only had the counterpart thing down, but also which cast member played who down. And I didn't do a speck of research, I just listened to my fellow mashabiki talk. I followed their conversations, and it came naturally.
So kwa all means, it really is that easy!
That said, onto the inayofuata point; "There has to be something zaidi to it than just enjoyment."
I suppose this is just a matter of opinion. Because I strongly disagree. Being a shabiki is all about enjoying something. In fact I'm inclined to point wewe back to the very definition of the word fan. It says nothing about research/knowledge and everything about enjoyment.
"In order to be a shabiki of something, wewe need to have done your homework on it." No. No, no, no. Being a shabiki should not require homework! That's what school is for. Sure if it's something wewe enjoy it shouldn't be a hassle. kwa all means when I got into Avatar I wanted to know everything I could about my inayopendelewa character, Azula. But what about the people who just want to watch the show? That's it, they like/love the onyesha but they really don't want to part-take in the fandom au anything. Are wewe saying that these people don't actually like the show? That they're not fans?
I'd like to argue that (again especially in the case of shows & books) the information is all and research wewe need lies in the content of the show/book. If it doesn't than the mwandishi isn't doing his/her job.
And just how much do wewe need to know? If knowledge is what defines what it takes to be a shabiki then who gets to set that bar? Some people would say that to be a real shabiki wewe have to know the names of all the characters, the inayofuata guy will step it up and demand that wewe know all of the characters and the actors who play them. The person will say that wewe have to know all of that and the names of all the episodes. So whose standard of how much knowledge wewe need to be a shabiki are we going by? Because that, my friends, is subjective too. And there's a simple solution to this problem; let the individual him au herself decide when he au she is a shabiki of something. Gauge whether au not someone is a shabiki of something kwa how much they like the show/book/band/etc.
"But if wewe want to be considered a fan, wewe should be reading, watching, attending, listening, and/or participating in whatever your interest is as much as possible." Now this is something I can agree with. Because that's all it takes; watching thew show, listening to the music, au whatever. Just making time for watching/listening to/etc. the subject shows that you're a fan. Where I differ is that I don't think that there is a such thing as a 'lazy, lackluster' fan, just a casual fan. And a casual shabiki is still a real fan.
Long story short, I just don't understand why people are so keen on making watching shows, kusoma books, listening to music, and generally enjoying something such a chore. It really doesn't have to be. Isn't the point of shows/books/music to give people a release. To give people an escape. A way to relax. And it's pretty hard to relax and get invested in a onyesha when people are telling you, wewe have to hardcore know everything about it. au when people are playing bouncer at the door of the fanclubs. Just welcome people in with open arms and onyesha them the works of the fandom! Like Jesus Christ.
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