Shadow here, and I think it's time I listed the reasons why I upendo this club. Here we go....
1: Randomness
As the club name suggests, it's completely RANDOM. wewe can literally post nearly anything wewe wish, and nobody gives a sh*t. kwa "random", though, I don't mean I want to post anything threatening/offensive towards anyone. I generally use this club to post what I'm interested in. I can talk about Vocaloid, Power Rangers, my upendo for Nick Wilde and even being a Furry and literally no one gives me sh*t about it. I just upendo how I'm basically free to be who I am without harsh judgement/backlash. That's greatly appreciated.
2: salama environment
There's only a handful of places on the net (and in real life) where I actually feel safe, which isn't many. Everyone here in general just seems very kind and accepting of how people are/what they like and so on. I don't really recall a time when I was made fun of/threatened/harassed in any way, and I upendo that a lot. Much like the above reason, I upendo being able to be myself.
3: The people
The people here are generally fun to talk to. We can openly discuss differences in fandoms, beliefs and whatnot usually without it becoming WW3. Now, I know there have been several fights here but for the most part, it seems to have seatled down quite a lot. I'm aware that, as different people, we will probably butt heads every now and again.... but I hope I experience zaidi of the fun side of this spot in the future. wewe guys are fun, and interesting for sure.
4: Getting to know wewe all
My inayopendelewa part of this club is getting the chance to learn about people's differences, likes/dislikes and all that. I've always loved the fact that people are different and that's OK. Because I'm also different as well. When I first came here, I didn't know anyone (well, durr), but it didn't take long to get a picture of how certain people were. Interacting with wewe all is a fun experience.
5: A sense of belonging
As most of wewe know (because I practically announce it in a quiz), I have ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder). Sometimes, having ASD can be fun, and cool because it does make me quite different from a lot of people. And for the most part, it's pretty easy to live with. But.... there are downsides. Because I have ASD, it can sometimes make interacting/talking with/to others extremely difficult for me. Especially if it's a new person. The only people in my family that know for sure about my ASD are: My aunt and younger sister.
Talking to my aunt can be extremely difficult, especially when she pisses me off (and that happens a lot). And the only person I can really talk to in real life is my sister. She understands me, she gets that I have anxiety/depression/fears, and she helps me a lot. That's why I upendo to come here, because I'm honestly dealing with a lot of BS in my life right now, and it feels like my life has no real direction at this point. The bila mpangilio Club, and wewe guys, and this place makes my days bearable. I cannot even begin to explain how many times I've wanted to say: "F*** everyone!" and kill myself. Here, I don't feel the need to end it all. So, thank wewe guys for making me feel like I'm welcome.
I really appreciate it <3
1: Randomness
As the club name suggests, it's completely RANDOM. wewe can literally post nearly anything wewe wish, and nobody gives a sh*t. kwa "random", though, I don't mean I want to post anything threatening/offensive towards anyone. I generally use this club to post what I'm interested in. I can talk about Vocaloid, Power Rangers, my upendo for Nick Wilde and even being a Furry and literally no one gives me sh*t about it. I just upendo how I'm basically free to be who I am without harsh judgement/backlash. That's greatly appreciated.
2: salama environment
There's only a handful of places on the net (and in real life) where I actually feel safe, which isn't many. Everyone here in general just seems very kind and accepting of how people are/what they like and so on. I don't really recall a time when I was made fun of/threatened/harassed in any way, and I upendo that a lot. Much like the above reason, I upendo being able to be myself.
3: The people
The people here are generally fun to talk to. We can openly discuss differences in fandoms, beliefs and whatnot usually without it becoming WW3. Now, I know there have been several fights here but for the most part, it seems to have seatled down quite a lot. I'm aware that, as different people, we will probably butt heads every now and again.... but I hope I experience zaidi of the fun side of this spot in the future. wewe guys are fun, and interesting for sure.
4: Getting to know wewe all
My inayopendelewa part of this club is getting the chance to learn about people's differences, likes/dislikes and all that. I've always loved the fact that people are different and that's OK. Because I'm also different as well. When I first came here, I didn't know anyone (well, durr), but it didn't take long to get a picture of how certain people were. Interacting with wewe all is a fun experience.
5: A sense of belonging
As most of wewe know (because I practically announce it in a quiz), I have ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder). Sometimes, having ASD can be fun, and cool because it does make me quite different from a lot of people. And for the most part, it's pretty easy to live with. But.... there are downsides. Because I have ASD, it can sometimes make interacting/talking with/to others extremely difficult for me. Especially if it's a new person. The only people in my family that know for sure about my ASD are: My aunt and younger sister.
Talking to my aunt can be extremely difficult, especially when she pisses me off (and that happens a lot). And the only person I can really talk to in real life is my sister. She understands me, she gets that I have anxiety/depression/fears, and she helps me a lot. That's why I upendo to come here, because I'm honestly dealing with a lot of BS in my life right now, and it feels like my life has no real direction at this point. The bila mpangilio Club, and wewe guys, and this place makes my days bearable. I cannot even begin to explain how many times I've wanted to say: "F*** everyone!" and kill myself. Here, I don't feel the need to end it all. So, thank wewe guys for making me feel like I'm welcome.
I really appreciate it <3
