Has your boyfriend been unfaithful to you? Infidelity can leave couples feeling insecure, hurt and can make it difficult to trust each other again. Sometimes, the damage can carry into a new relationship if a break up occurs. Handle a cheating boyfriend kwa following these steps.:
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that wewe can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would wewe give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do wewe believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how wewe feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If wewe feel wewe need to know why he cheated on wewe to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean wewe condone, agree with au accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology au promises never to cheat on wewe again. Be realistic. Do wewe honestly believe this was a one-time event, au do your instincts tell wewe that he'll probably cheat on wewe again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if wewe would be better off with him au without him. Can wewe continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether wewe stay with him au not, forgive him for his actions so wewe can heal and move on with your life.
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that wewe can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would wewe give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do wewe believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how wewe feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If wewe feel wewe need to know why he cheated on wewe to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean wewe condone, agree with au accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology au promises never to cheat on wewe again. Be realistic. Do wewe honestly believe this was a one-time event, au do your instincts tell wewe that he'll probably cheat on wewe again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if wewe would be better off with him au without him. Can wewe continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether wewe stay with him au not, forgive him for his actions so wewe can heal and move on with your life.
